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bambam 05/31/2007

I just want to know, and I know this sounds strange, but my girlfriends keep telling me their right and I need to face the truth.

I was married for 5 years, and now we are spearated and will be divorcing the first opportunity we have. My stbx was additcted to porn and strip clubs when we first got together but gave those up.

Now that we are separated, he is back at the strip clubs - but not sure if he is there for the guys or for the girls!

So my question is: Would a gay man go to strip clubs where woman strip? My gf's tell me yes, because where else would you have a forum of all men to talk to, drink with, etc...

Please let me know if they are off their rockers...

deleted_user 05/31/2007

lmao well im a teenager... so i dont konw how valuable my opinion is, but a girl strip club is the last place i'd be (im gay). lol i picture guys in strip clubs to be beer-chugging, creepy manly men. lol so yeah.. i'd say theyre off their rockers :)

WestPalmGuy 06/01/2007

I don't see a gay man going to strip clubs unless he's in the closet and goes with his friends to keep up the charade. If I were to go to one, it wouldn't be one with female strippers that's for sure :)

Fiddler 06/01/2007

ewwww!

There are lots of Men Only types of places I would NEVER go, because the rampant homophobia that seems to be part of the furniture there. Let's think about this: strip club, women stripping... the men are drunk, horny, hetero, and either there because they are NOT into me or because they're afraid they are and have something to prove. What better way than to beat up a faggot?

No.

no no no no no no

I don't think so.

Maybe a bisexual guy, but I'm not bi, so I couldn't speak to that.

deleted_user 06/01/2007

Been to the stip club, drank the expensive beer, played along with the game, couldn't wait to leave.

If I ever go to a stip club again, it better be guys losing their g-stings.

No, IMO, if this guy is choosing to go to a stip club, and he is not in deep denial, then he is a breeded.

deleted_user 06/22/2007

well my cooment to that would be i dont think all men are that desperate. Some have some dignity not to do those things he is probably maybe not just gay but bisexual you should ask him?

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