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Can anyone answer me this -
Would you go to a strip club to pick up someone of the same sex? We all know that unless you pay for it, it is highly unlikely that you will have any play at a strip club BUT what about the other people in the audience?
My gf's tell me that probably the main reason why my stbx is going to so many strip clubs is that its the only forum around where the audience is all male (and we think he is probably gay or trying to come out).
Does what I am saying make sense here? Can someone please help me understand this?
Would you go to a strip club to pick up someone of the same sex? We all know that unless you pay for it, it is highly unlikely that you will have any play at a strip club BUT what about the other people in the audience?
My gf's tell me that probably the main reason why my stbx is going to so many strip clubs is that its the only forum around where the audience is all male (and we think he is probably gay or trying to come out).
Does what I am saying make sense here? Can someone please help me understand this?
(B) Gemini - My first husband was a union worker, practically LIVED in strip clubs, day-in, day-out yet he never wanted to have sex. I never got it and to this day I don't get it. IMO, I think he is bi or gay and didn't want to admit it to himself and if he kept going to these establishments maybe he could put up a front that he's "normal".
....just my opinion based on my experiences.