Change the locks........On Mother's Day my X called and he wanted to come and take the TV I told him to give it a rest it was mother's day...He agreed so I went and took a hot bath..next thing I new I am naked in the tub and he is tromping around the house... sucked stayed in the tub with the door locked til he left...need to change the locks....

KIM

My STBX took my soul and will to live.

It's OK though, wasn't using either of them.

Well with this break up I've being dignified and controlled in my anger (so far) and not done anything to his possesions. I've burned all the linen and towels and taken all are pots and pans and so forth to the thrift shop.

Given him back all the jewlery he bought me to give to the OW.

But when I split up with one guy )he was so lovely, the only relationship I go AWWW to). Me and my girlfriends bulit a big fire out of his snowboarding and scate clothes (very expensive designer labels) and got lots of bottles of Chardonnay and danced around his stuff all nite. All the girls started going home to get things of X's to throw on as well. Very freeing.

But in a past

A friend of mine went thru a very nasty divorce about 5 yrs ago. They were fighting over everything. I mean everything. If there was a box of toothpicks they BOTH wanted them.

In the final divorce decree, there was a clause in there that stated all of his OTHER possessions would be located in the yard and driveway on a certain day by a certain time for pick up.

Well, he was rather pissed to say the least, and he had a true moment of "evil". When he arrived, there was his stuff, all over the lawn and driveway. Nothing was packed, it was just tossed on the grass and driveway. She left a note on the front door, saying something to the effect that "here's your shit, take it, take the lawn, take the driveway. Be back Sunday, anything left in the yard or driveway will be burned." I am thinking she MEANT to say "take whats ON the lawn, take whats ON the driveway."

Anyway...when she retuned on Sunday, her LAWN and DRIVEWAY had BOTH been removed. No grass, no bushes, no trees no flowers and NO asphalt, no driveway. She had dirt, dirt and more dirt. He left a note something to the effect of "Thanks for the grass and ass."

Oh another one, not my X, my friends, and 14 years ago (I've matured , honest lol)we spied on him and discovered he was still seeing his X. My friend ahd a key to his house so we let are selfs in. Now concentrate and nobaody think about doing this OK. Insurance policies do not cover furniture for what I'm about to tell u. We shoved canned pilgereds (a very smelly fish) and herrings down his furniture, the smell was revolting even before it had gone off. Then we did the same to his car...not covered by insurance again (since can u imagine if everyone claimed for stuff that had fallen down the couch). Then we found his car and she wrote B******d on it in some liquid that burnt away the paint, u can get done for that, so don't do it.

I later found out the guy was a cop!!! she never told me his profession (we didn't get done either, he saw it as an embarrassment)

My STBX took all the yard equipment...and then asked me to come over to her new townhouse and show her how to work it. Was particularly interested in where you put gas/oil in the electric edger. It was all I could do to NOT tell her where to put gas in the electric edger. I pay someone to cut my grass now as I don't own a mower anymore.