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- It has been one year since I left my husband of 16 years. I had an affair and thought that would help...NOT. So now I think I want my marriage back. Problem is that he now has a girlfriend and is not sure how he feels about me. To be honest I really...
- After seeing my therapist today I had a wonderful realization. I need to drive my own bus(my life). I have been a passenger for way too long. I think of myself as very independant, but really I'm not. I have always relied on others ultimately to...
- I told hubby last night I wanted a legal separation! Just came out after he continued to bash me about the finances. He took it very hard. At first he said "you better get a lawyer!!" But then after 24 hours he is now humble and has apologized for...
- So lets reach out to someone who needs a hug today and concentrate on them and making them feel better and let our problems go for a day.I choose IZZY. Today when I feel needy and alone and not loved and scared, etc... I will think of IZZY and send...
- Well I have done it again. I have met yet another man who I think is a good guy. I know that I need to work on myself and end my marriage and on and on but I crave the attention of a man. I have made girlfriends and am exercising and doing healthy...
- Well I have done it again. I have met yet another man who I think is a good guy. I know that I need to work on myself and end my marriage and on and on but I crave the attention of a man. I have made girlfriends and am exercising and doing healthy...
- My husband has told me that I never consider his feelings. I do whatever I want and am selfish. He is a martyr. Then I ran into affair man last night after 2 months of no contact and was able to consider my feelings and security and decided I did...
- Stay hopeful all of us beautiful ladies. Don't ever forget how truly wonderful you are! We have so much to offer the world and others. Sometimes we just take a left turn and have to wander off for a while until we get back on our path. Try and...
- Wow its been 7 weeks of no contact and I actually think of affair man very little these days. I was just thinking what a true blessing that is to not think constantly about him and what he is doing. I feel like I have a little of my life back. I do...
- I am finding that as time goes by, my brain is struggling to keep telling me lots of BS. It tells me "oh there is the car he drives" or "hey wasnt that relationship just the most exciting thing you have had in a long time" or "he never really broke...
- I was feeling really down today. Thinking about poor me and why couldnt my affair man love me? Well I know I would not have been happy with him, but I wanted to be the one to break it off when I wanted! I think that is also why I am feeling sad. It...
- It has been 5 weeks of NC and FINALLY starting to be ok with things and not obsess every hour about affair man. I am doing all the things people say to do. I am finally taking directions from healthy people and not doing what I want. If it were up...
- I am anticipating seeing affair man this weekend. Not by choice. It will be in meeting for one hour! I am sooo nervous already. I see myself sitting there shaking with nerves so much that I won't be able to hear the speaker. Its getting me all...
- I had an affair and it screwed with my mind. It was very unhealthy from the start. I was so unhappy in my marriage that I ran to the first man I could attract. And I was so blind to my addiction. Just today 3 weeks after it ended, I found out that...
- I have gone NC with my affair guy and it is killing me. It has only been 2 weeks, but I actually just am feeling a slight bit better the last couple of days. BUT now I have leaned back into my husband who I have not been happy with for several...