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- My H went to see our counselor yesterday. I didn't go, he had some stuff he wanted to talk to her about. He has been struggling with wondering if my anger at times means that I haven't really forgiven him. I have tried to tell him that it doesn't...
- I've had a terrible couple of weeks. Up and down in my feelings, and was finally settling into a better frame of mind.I've been dealing with peri-menopause for over 8 years, usually not too severe. 3 years ago I had a tough time, thought I needed to...
- I'm having a tough couple of days. Nothing that H has done, just basic pity party time. My kids were here for a few days over Thanksgiving, saying goodbye is always really hard.I'm really struggling with my feelings for my H right now. I know it's...
- I had a surprise yesterday, something that should only be GOOD. Our daughter made a surprise trip home for Thanksgiving. It was totally unexpected, and since we haven't seen her since July, it was/should be wonderful. She lives 1200 miles away.All...
- I know the OW, she works at the same company as my H. He hardly ever has to see or talk to her for work issues, and if he does, he tells me. I think there was one time during the past year, and that was just to hand off some paperwork. She has...
- I was asked to find this old post from May and repost it. It was posted by Erica, she found it on "survivinginfidelity.com"I found this article at survivinginfidelity.com and thought it does describe in a small way what we the betrayed goes...
- The following was posted by Inkleindtoo back in October. It's an excerpt from The Monogamy Myth. Here's a link to the whole post...it's long but well worth reading. The letter that follows was a key turning point for my H and myself. It helped him...
- It's been fairly quiet here the last few days. I've been able to log in and make sure nothing needs done, but haven't posted much due to the head colds hubby & I are both fighting. The entire weekend was pretty much spent doing nothing but watching...
- I have a small request about posting. If you are posting a lengthy post, would you please try and put in some paragraph breaks? I have a minor eye issue called Nystagmus. It's very difficult for me to read a very long post that isn't broken up at...
- I'm having a tough time today. There is no reason for it, things have been going really well for us. I'm just feeling down. Maybe the approaching winter, knowing we'll see our kids for Thanksgiving and then they'll go back to their own lives in...
- I just wanted to post a short note. As many of you may have noticed, Carol has transferred this forum to my care. She is moving on in her life and her rebuilding of her marriage. She started this forum for those of us who chose to stay and work on...
- My husband began his EA that turned physical during a time of great hardship & sorrow in our family. That problem concerned our daughter who is now 21 and living out of state.She's been struggling with jobs & her car etc, and we've tried to help...
- I printed that "need to know" letter out and gave it to H yesterday. He said it really helped him to see where I'm at right now. So he's willing to sit down and answer any questions, but he did suggest I talk to our counselor about what questions...
- Thanks to Special3 who invited me here from the Infidelity forums. My husband had 1 affair over about a years time. We've been married almost 32 years and have 4 grown children (who don't know about the OW)We went through a very difficult time in...
- In reading through threads here, often members mention that they read emails to and from the OW or OM.Wouldn't a cheater make an effort at hiding secret emails? We use Road Runner for our internet, and any emails that come in to that account can be...