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- ...to Tearful. I've been really busy this past month. My MIL has been in the hospital 3 different times since Dec. 14th. She is going to a rehab center next week, and things should calm down.I'm going to keep my membership here for the time being....
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- I'm thinking of letting go of the job of Moderator here on Rebuilding Marriage. I want to continue to read and post here, but think it's time for me to move on.If you are interested in taking over the Moderator job, please send me a Private...
- I was reading "The Accidental Tourist" this week. I love the movie, and found the book at a used Book Store a few weeks ago.The character was talking about loss...She said:"I feel like a Gold Star mom. (to explain, that means a parent who has lost...
- We're traveling to see our new grandson tomorrow, and my access to the boards will be limited. I'll try to check in every day to make sure nothing needs handled, but there aren't many problems here.Press on.
- So, I wasn't feeling good this weekend. Sinus headache, vertigo, peri-menopause crap. Yesterday was a typical Sunday, laid back morning, H goes off to the gym at 3, I get some kitchen stuff done. I made a simple supper and he brought some wine...
- We're at 2 years post Dday sometime this month. As most of you know, he works at the same company as the OW, but they do not work in the same department. They rarely have to have contact, and he always tells me when they do. Last year it only...
- Just FYI...I'm going to be out of town from Wednesday night until sometime Sunday late afternoon. I should be able to check in at least once per day, but I don't know for sure. I just wanted the group to know.
- My H and I had a wonderful weekend. After a couple of stressful weeks, some triggers that knocked me down etc, it was really needed. We hadn't been out to eat at a nice place in quite some time. Money issues mostly to blame, and just being busy....
- There is no reason for it. My H has done nothing to cause triggers. But I can't get it out of my head. It's taken up residence there, his time with her, his SEX with her. It's been going to well. But I am overwhelmed with sadness and pain after...
- There is a member named CptSteve who is spamming other members via Messages. You can report him at this link:http://www.dailystrength.org/help/report-abuseInclude his name and a copy of the message he sends you. Do not reply to him.
- So, my H and I had a somewhat tough week. That huge trigger last Sunday, the recovery from that. It had repercussions for my H as well...guilt flare up, angst about being able to perform. (no problems BTW)So, we talked a little bit, and calmed each...
- First off, I have to say that my H and I have been doing really well. No major triggers for months, we've both been attentive to each other. Nothing has been going on to make me nervous or distrusting. We approaching 23 months past Dday.My H has...
- Perhaps some of you have found yourself doing this. You've had a great day or couple of days, maybe you've been doing great for weeks. There has been good communication, some good intimate time together, or just a fun day running errands or working...
- This letter helped us more than I can say. Those of you who have betrayers in your life who won't talk to you, this might help. It was a turning point for my H as far as talking to me about his A.begin quote:The following was posted by Inkleindtoo...