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- Well it has been exactly 4 months since my ex dropped the bombshell! There are still times that are tough and I struggle emotionally but I want all the newbies to know that it does get better...time does appear to heal all wounds! I remember the...
- So I have read numerous places that an activity to help with healing is to burn things from your ex (photos, letters, cards, etc) along with a goodbye letter to them. Has anyone ever done this?? If so, did you feel better or worse? Seriously...
- So after having a really rough week last week I was starting to finally feel a little better. Went back to my childhood home this weekend and let my dad and stepmom spoil me...it was wonderful! I came home from their house yesterday and started...
- I really want to move forward, I really do, but I can't seem to make myself do anything but work, cry, obsess about the past and sleep.Every day I sit down at night and promise myself that the next day will be different. I make lists and lists of...
- So my week started with me still on business in Chicago. I was doing a lot of healing while in Chicago and was starting to feel ok. Was looking forward to coming home on Thursday and put my new found "ok-ness" to the test.And then bam! Wednesday I...
- So I spent the evening with someone I have know for a long time (a client).At the end of the night she said something to me that was an ah ha moment. So, for the last few months I have been saying that I can't wait to find myself and become the...
- I was doing really well here lately, but today was full of all kinds of triggers. It really all started yesterday when my ex contacted me via email, after weeks of no contact. My heart just stopped and the tears began to flow as soon as his name...
- So as of 10:50 this morning I am officially divorced! I thought the day would be filled with tears and sadness, but overall it has been one of my better days since my world sudden collapsed around me. I can't believe that I have viewed it more of a...
- Just reaching out for some hugs and words of encouragement as I will be officially divorced tomorrow morning. Having very mixed emotions this evening. Feeling sad of course, but then a little relieved that this part of the whole ordeal is almost...
- I have received this video from friends lately...thought I would share.It was quite inspirational for me.http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uWi5iXnguTUP.S. I hope the links works! If not you can go to YouTube and search Who You Are...A Message to All...
- Just wanted to give a big hug to all of those who may be sitting at home - alone - on a Saturday night. Saturday nights are always tough for me so wanted to give a shout out to anyone else out there who might be having a hard time. Remember you are...
- Does anyone have any self help books that really helped them through the divorce process and beyond? The struggles I have right now are moving forward...I seem to be stuck in the past. I obsess over what went wrong, how I couldn't see that he was...
- Seems like all I do is count down the hours until I can go to bed. I wake up each morning and start counting down the waking hours that I have to get through. I am letting my life just slip by, but I just don't have the modivation to do anything. If...
- I thought I was doing so well....but the reality has hit me really hard tonight! The movers will be here at 8:00 in the morning to move me to my new house. I tried to stay positive and focus on my new beginning, my new house, and how I could spend...
- So it has been just over 2 months since my STBX walked out on me without warning for his mistress 18 years his junior. Friends, family and all you great peeps here on the board kept expressing how important it was to go no contact (which is...