Skwerl
Status: Forgiveness and compassion will set you free.
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- So maybe getting laid off and moving back in with the stbx has forced me to move on quicker than I anticipated, but it actually feels okay. Feels great. It's only been a month and a half, so I know I haven't completely moved on, but it's more of an...
- So I'm about to make crazy generalizations/triggers... you've been warned :) (obviously I'm thinking of a certain someone in particular, and not from DS!!)There are times when people complain that they chronically pick bad people to be in a...
- Got laid off today. Like I needed another issue to deal with right now.Odd part is, I think because I've been absolutely emotionally spent, I don't really care. Whatever happens will happen. This is small compared to the divorce. At least to me. She...
- I'm desperately feeling like I need to call her or write her and ask her to tell me that it's really over, that there's absolutely nothing else we can do.. I know I'm stuck in the false hope stage, but knowing that doesn't help.Most if not all of...
- TacosCouldn't stop thinking of you guys and yer tacos.Well, not you GUYS really...
- Here I am, in my hotel room, all lonely and empty as usual, trying to do some online training that I procrastinated doing, and the people next door are going at it like bunnies. How am I supposed to get any work done? Don't they know how hard it is...
- Went to the book store the other day, expecting a whole isle on divorce. They had like 2 or 3 books (I am usually blind with such things though).I know this has been brought up before, but I'm too lazy to look it up. Anyone want to suggest some good...
- So when I dropped my son off tonight, we talked a little about the financial stuff, she doesn't want to sell the house she can't afford on her own, and I don't want to keep paying for it blah blah.. That and the birthday think started to get a...
- So my stbx has an issue with me not wanting her to be with me and my family on our sons birthday. I didn't tell her I wanted custody of him on his whole birthday day, and I told her I would be okay with us doing something separate. I'm just not...
- We're going to start talking about custody and visitation soon, and there's a lot of talk about the best interests of our son. I started thinking about it, wouldn't his best interests be 50/50 custody? I know it's hardly ever done, but does the...
- So after almost 3 weeks, I think I've come to terms with the fact that this really is going to happen. Well, maybe I feel it more often than I don't anyway.Out of the 20 phone calls a day I get at work, I only think it's her calling to apologize...
- So I'm thinking it's trouble to fall in love strictly because of how someone makes you feel... Would that cloud your ability to instead fall in love with someone for who they are? Is there even a difference? I know love is all about feelings anyway,...
- How would you interpret the philosophy of others not being responsible for our happiness, and us not being responsible for others happiness?I honestly believe it, but then I think, I do things that can make others happy or unhappy, and others do...
- I called my son to say goodnight like I do every night, and he mentioned that the OM was visiting for dinner. It's been 2 weeks since she sprung this on me. I know they've probably been together already, but I was doing pretty good at blocking it...
- I think that most of us here are the "emotionally healthier" ones from our relationships. And reading what I have, I do believe that most of us here do not carry the majority of the blame for our failed marriages, myself included. But in the...