gettingitstraight
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- n2 of over 100 incidents of my mother lying to me in my childhood that caused great mental scarsm Lie 1. my mom and dad got married after i was conceived out of wedlock 6 months later he left because alcohol was more important than familylie 2 ...
- I could write books upon books about how screwed up I am and how good I am at hiding it but today my 15 year old who I have been dealing with loving and battling with for 8 years beat me physically and mentally long story short my issues are deep...
- So I met my ex when I was 15 was friends with her brother we were married 12 years together about 15 we don't hate each other we tried to stay together for kids at my suggestion it did not work she had 4 emotional affairs and one physical which is...
- I haven't posted in a while and if there's a group for this I will gladly repost there I couldn't find it I know there was talk of making a separate group for families of people with as perverse before anyhowMy daughter is 15 and it's been a long...
- Most of what happened to me I still am on a mental block about everything that happened however I have healed for the most part but I spend a lot of time thinking about everything I did while I was dealing with the process and becoming who I am...
- I try to keep an open line of communication open with my ex for the sake of my kids brief background for I haven't posted on here in a while my ex cheated on me she had several emotional affairs with guys and one physical. After I caught...
- I have not been on this site in about a year not because I don't need support for anything I have been trying to live life and do right but still have all the same issues I had before just letting them ferment I guess is the word I wanna use...
- So I haven't been on here in forever but it's not because things ever changed I work from home. By my choice it's more money plus some things happened in the office that didn't sit well with me. It probably wasn't a good decision but I feel even...
- my ex is very dependant she was on me and she is now on her current boyfriend, anyhow i have two daughters 15 and 12 shared custody, our agreement is when i have them, i pay for everything when she has them she pays, i have them 5 days a week, but...
- ok though out my life i have always had my ear to the ground i knew alot about everything going on and in the workplace alot of that always involved who was fraternizing with who outside of work, its been two years since my wife cheated on me, i am...
- it will be 2 years next month since she cheated and we split, but she still continues to do things to tick me off when she has our kids, i have 2 girls 14 and 11 they sleep at my house mostly my ex only has them for 3 hours a day after school and...
- ok long and short of it, i am the strict one always was my ex is the do what you want mom, my daughters are 14 and 11. my oldest has bipolar tendencies she is not officially diagnosed, yet due to puberty, anyhow, that was part of the reason for our...
- i have been seperated for 2 years almost divorce papers are being filed finally , however i had to stay at my exs house with the kids over this past weekend and i found out that she hasnt been paying the mortgage, the mortgage is in her name, not...
- ok my ex and i have been trying to be amicable for the sake of the kids, and i am doing my part, anyhow i went to her house one evening the kids werre at her house to help them fix her tv, since she would not get up she works midnights, and...
- ok its been 13 months since we split our kids are 13 and 10 and our 13 year old has special needs, part of the reason we split up is how to handle our daughter who has bipolar, and aspergers, seh is explosive and says alot of hurtful thinhgs, my...