I try to keep an open line of communication open with my ex for the sake of my kids   brief background for I haven't posted on here in a while   my ex cheated on me  she had several emotional affairs with guys and one physical.  After I caught her in lies and confronted she confessed too everything the night before she had surgery   I still went with her to the hospital  while I sat there she talked to one of the 5 men on the phone or was texting him while I sat there we havery two kids who live primarily with me my oldest has special needs hence ghetto open line of communication  

Anyhow my ex current live in boyfriend is a dead beat he supposedly works two jobs but my ex is losing her house cause he doesn't help her pay the mortgage I have no problem telling her or him I think he is a deadbeat but the point of my post Thursday night my ex calls me and says can I vent to you so I sat go ahead and she begins to tell me her by is lying to her and she thinks he is having an affair at first since I am over what she did to me for the most part I say I know from  what the kids tell me you let him get away with way too much crappie so now your gonna let him do this  in would do what I did to you confront him  she rambles more and I end it with well now you know how I felt  don't ya