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my ex is very dependant she was on me and she is now on her current boyfriend, anyhow i have two daughters 15 and 12 shared custody, our agreement is when i have them, i pay for everything when she has them she pays, i have them 5 days a week, but if theres any major expenses we split medical bilsl school clothers things like that, well at least its how its supposed to be in the perfect world, anyhow
i paid for all my kids school clothes school supplies and my daughter is taking culinary so i dished out the 150 for her culinary outfits, i told my ex when she had it give me something anything i spent over 700 for everything, she bought them nothing for school, her mother bought my kids one pair of shoes
anyhow she actually 2 month later was gonna give me 50 bucks last week, but her boyfriend stopped her telling her if she is giving me money she must want me back in her life or we are rekindling our relationship
so without resorting to some violent act like putting him through a wall or hurting him, i already made him pee his pants when he overdosed on a prescription medication due to his MS in front of my kids, when i told him never again
how can i stop him from intruding on my end with my ex and myself when it comes to my kids, since she will do nothing
i paid for all my kids school clothes school supplies and my daughter is taking culinary so i dished out the 150 for her culinary outfits, i told my ex when she had it give me something anything i spent over 700 for everything, she bought them nothing for school, her mother bought my kids one pair of shoes
anyhow she actually 2 month later was gonna give me 50 bucks last week, but her boyfriend stopped her telling her if she is giving me money she must want me back in her life or we are rekindling our relationship
so without resorting to some violent act like putting him through a wall or hurting him, i already made him pee his pants when he overdosed on a prescription medication due to his MS in front of my kids, when i told him never again
how can i stop him from intruding on my end with my ex and myself when it comes to my kids, since she will do nothing
Based on what you wrote in this post, this guy sounds like a real piece of work. He also sounds like he might be a danger to your kids. You might want to talk to your attorney about this and see if there are legal ways to handle it. If he has done other things that are dangerous to or in front of your kids, you might ask about getting a restraining order against him. If you succeed, then your ex will have to make arrangements for him to be gone while she has the kids.
This way you are protecting your kids and placing the blame squarely where it belongs on the ex and her boyfriend. Ultimately it is up to her to keep them safe when she has them. But if she isn't, that's where you step in legally.
~healing hugs~
Hugs to you.
Im guessing they just started dating so truthfully, his opinion right now when it comes to decisions for your family shouldn't be worth spit. Especially given the "excuse" she told you. Going to him aint gonna do shit but hurt your case even more. He probably may not have even said something about it. She may just not want to give you the money. Who knows.
Continue to ask, continue to give her sound reason for the money, but your expectations should be that you aren't going to get that help, at least not now.