startingover1865

Status: Recently divorced.

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Seeing X with the OW

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One of my daughters had a big event tonight and I knew X and OW would be there. It has been two years since I discovered their affair and 6 months since I was divorced yet it still bothers me to see them together. She is so young, skinny and he is...
X's relatives

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OK. How do you "let go" when there is constantly more pain? My mother-in -law. (Oops, I forgot to say "X") cannot even talk to me anymore and vise versa. We used to be so close,(I have known her for almost 30 years!) but she cannot admit to herself...
Is it all about being young? Dating...

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Although I miss marriage: companionship and the intimacy that a relationship involves, I do not pine for my X. Divorced for less than a month, & separated for 2 years- I am in no way ready to date again yet. A divorced friend tells me to try dating...
x and texts

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I try to use texting and email whenever possible with my x whenver I have to discuss something about the kids. This week I sent a message to two of my kids and forwarded it to him, to be sure I knew where they were. He responded with a funny...
Children treat us differently

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I wrote about this in my journal but wanted to open it up. My divorce was just final and 2 of my 3 kids exploded and lashed out. One, in middle school, said she hated me, trashed the bedroom, said I was a bad mother, etc. This child held it together...
Exhausted and need a break

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Who understands what I am feeling right now? From the time he began cheating until today when he signed the quit claim deed, it has been 2 years. The divorce was final on 2/29 and all I am feeling is exhaustion. I am SO tired! I feel like I was...
cannot get started

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I just canot get motovated. The Girl Scout cookies arrived. I just ate tortilla chips and guacamole for lunch. My divorce is almost final so I know this is stress eating and I haven't been sleeping well and eat more the next day after a bad...
cheaters end up together

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My stbx cheated on me with a woman I could easily have given birth to. She also cheated- was married at the time they met. They have been living with eachother for the last year and a half. At first I wanted to reconcile and he led me to believe it...
Abilify

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Have you tried Abilify? What does it cost you? Do you think it works well? Already taking Ritalin for ADHD. I have heard that Abilify really helps with Aspis, but HOW? What differences do you see? Thanks.
lost motivation

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When I am happy it is easy to watch my diet. I am very stressed out now-with my divorce proceedings and I just crave the comfort food. I am trying to keep cookies, ice cream, chips, etc out of the house completely but I find I am snacking too...
swearing

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My daughter got into trouble when she over-reacted at her job- to some mild teasing- and she swore. I cannot emphasize enough to her how she MUST watch her language. She is worse than ever. A few years ago she never used any bad words. Now it is...
how does one keep from snacking at night?

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I have just started to try and lose weight again after not trying for months. I joined a health club that has a therapy pool for my achy body. It is really reasonable and tonight for almost an hour, I was alone in the pool. I want to lose weight ...
Children and their conflicted feelings

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My oldest did not even see her father for over half a year after he moved in with his lover last fall. (She has some developmental issues, mild, but doesn't understand nuance and social situations well- which makes everything just so much more...

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