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- HI all - I hope you are all finding your way, post N. And that you realise fully his behaviour has nothing to do with you, and the only reason you feel weak is because he wants you to feel weak. It's all very sick, and part of the abuse cycle, I am...
- We need you ! We need your wisdom :)That said, i hope things are going well for you and you are N free.Shine your light ! PeacePl xxx
- Hi guys - hope this finds you well.I'm ok. Disillusioned with the world. Men are the only thing that ruins it.My ex N has re-appeared. My fault. I kept crying, small wonder after how he treated me.It spins me down into depression. Some contact with...
- Dating abuse should be a thing. It's not talked about enough. When you're single, as well as our own brainwashing that we 'should meet someone', all anyone seems to say is 'get out there' 'go online dating' 'why can't you meet anyone' the list is...
- Hi all - just wondering where you peeps have gone - hope you're all ok, be great to hear from you ! :) PL
- from Psychology in everyday life, by Dr Deborah KoshabaAre You Sleeping with an Enemy? How do you know when you start dating a person if he or she will become an abusive lover? By abuse, I mean any behavior that is intended to tie you so deeply to...
- Hi all - hope you're all well, and doing well in your recovery.Me - not so good. I seem to be stuck in a no longer ignorable pattern of dating the worst narcs in town. And it's a very painful cycle to be in. As much as I understand it's them, and...
- So, I meet this new guy.We have a ball of a time for two months.I spend Christmas with his family, I spend New Year with him then we had a fab two day trip to Amsterdam.The next time I see him he tellse I'm not sexy, attractive and am fat.He walks...
- ... The 5th of November.Ah yes. A year ago now you asked me to marry you. I said yes. After the fifth time of asking.Just to be sure you meant it.Not even two months later, you dumped me by text on Christmas Day.The 'relatuonship' weirdly limped on...
- ... The 5th of November.Ah yes. A year ago now you asked me to marry you. I said yes. After the fifth time of asking.Just to be sure you meant it.Not even two months later, you dumped me by text on Christmas Day.The 'relatuonship' weirdly limped on...
- Hello all - hope you're all doing ok. Melanie Tonia Evans blows me away - her blogs are spot on -http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/from-being-trapped-to-your-personal-freedom-part-1/xxx
- There's been an awful recent murder of a 14 year old girl in the uk.A tiny detail at the very beginning has got me thinking.The main suspect is a Latvian man. And when he went missing days after the girl disappeared, his wife made a public comment...
- I'm finding this concept really helpful right now in dealing with the post N trauma - hand all their stuff right back to them.It's a therapy idea, and while we can't undo what the N has done, we can't erase ever having met them, we can in our minds...
- Terrible urge to text him - tomorrow marks a year since our very first date.Felt lots of waves of sadness this week.Want to text him, remind him ... Stupid isn't it.Please remind me why I shouldn't. He'd just ignore me anyway.sending love to all...
- Greetings allAmong the many off and odd things the ex N did, he didn't one thing I hadn't come across before. Bear in mind he's a cannabis addict also. Whenever I introduced him to someone, he would either say to them or to me afterwards "I'm sure...