stacyleanne
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- I'm currently learning to "detach with love" as Alanon calls it. I know it's a process and it takes time to perfect it but my AH is reacting very strongly to this. I am being accused of being callous and uncaring when I refuse to engage in...
- This is my first post. I've recently taken steps to help myself by going to Alanon meetings and scheduled counseling sessions for myself, since in marriage counseling, all he wants to talk about are my problems. We've been married just 14 months and...
- So, I never thought I'd be here....First time I can remember, was about 6 years ago when I felt that I had moved/transferred to a school (college) and didn't like it there. The binging and purging started. I don't really remember why or how, but it...
- So it's been almost 2 weeks.When i sent him a final e-mail explaining some of my feelings I had told him just to keep the stuff of mine he had and mail me my keys (he had one to my car and my apartment). I told him it would be too hard for me to see...
- So I've been having a hard time defining whether what I experienced was abuse or not.But, is this logical?I have always been a very calm person, even when arguing with people, however, with "him" I became an angry screamer who would shout and curse...
- Is it weird to believe your abuser doesn't emotionally abuse on purpose. I really do believe that my abuser doesn't know he does this and probably needs more help than I do.And....is that even realistic. Do all abusers know they are doing this or...
- So its been Months since I have been on here and I'm sure many of you can guess why.....I went back and felt everything was better.Finally on Friday i broke again. The hard thing about this one is its hard to justify the emotional abuse. I know it...
- So Its been almost 2 months...I just called...heard him answer the phone...and hung up!Why do I feel the need to hear his voice. Why do I still think about him every day? Why do I still feel like I need those hugs, kisses, "fake" i love you's? Why...
- So I was driving to the gym...and I saw his car. He works at a pay day loan company and i know helps out at the store in my area of town sometimes and I'm sure he was there today. However, he usually will park his car in another area of the parking...
- I'm writing this discussion for some advice. I will be 25 on Friday and realized that I really have never been, since I started dating at like 17, in a healthy adult relationship. So my question is...Now at 25, what does healthy dating or a healthy...
- Hello, I am what you would consider a birth aunt to a niece who was placed in open adoption. My mother, father and sister are still very involved in her life. My sister allowed us all to experience all the ups and downs of her adoption choice first...
- How do you overcome bringing your old thoughts into new relationships. I met this great guy and am pretty sure i ruined it because I assumed every time he didn't answer the phone for a while when I knew he wasn't at work, that he is doing something...
- I never thought this would happen to me....For those of you who have been following my story, you know that after 3 weeks of no contact, my emotional abuser (after me cutting contact) showed up at my apartment. Against my better judgment ( I know I...
- So it happened...The day I have been fantasizing about and waiting to happen for about 3 weeks now. He showed up at my front door last night! He was calm, quiet and very sad. He came to ask why I sent rude e-mails and what I still had against him...
- So a good friend kind of gave me a reality check today...He doesn't care, he won't change, he won't EVER admit it was his fault, he won't apologize and face it, he had other girls on the side so he probably isn't moping over this like you.As much as...