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- I posted this as a reply in another thread but I think it is an interesting discussion in its self: The crazy thing is that we were only together for 8 months but the more comfortable he got the more the abusive behaviors came out (that I ignored)....
- I have been doing pretty well. I have not contacted him and have not really been that eager to do so. I have felt pretty peaceful. However, I woke up this morning with this overwhelming sadness, anxiety, and urge to materialize a reason to contact...
- As you all can see I posted yesterday about my successes ans struggles with NC. I sat at my computer last night and had my finger on the trigger to block him on FB (already de-friended). I just wasn't ready. I did delete all of our text though. We...
- It has been a week since we have communicated. I have had my finger on the send trigger so many times I can't count. Then I step back and remind myself if he responds I start over. If he does not respond I start over and have an additional kick in...
- Ugh. I have been in and out of here over several years. I come in and read all the time but only post when in need. Well here I go again.....I took a nice long break from my last relationship. I entered into a Long distance relationship in April....
- Thank you all for your words and help with my loved one with PTSD. I am not an expert but I have been doing a lot of research and received amazing words from many of you, What I see happening is that he was triggered when I left, his daily struggles...
- I am dating a man who participated in 2 lengthy tours in Iraq. We are in a long distance relationship - long story, met through his brother (an old friend). He is a wonderful man - at least that is who was presented to me and who I ultimately fell...
- Hello All. I am currently in a LDR (several states between us) and this is a new thing for me. It all started back in March when the brother of a boy I dated, and am still friends with, in high school sent me a FB request. We started chatting and...
- So many points in this article hit home for me - wow....
- The majority of us have made a life out of putting other peoples needs and wants before ours! I am trying to put me first - more than I have in the past anyway. My daughter goes to her dad this weekend - so I booked myself a massage for Friday night...
- Part of my anxiety is over what he is telling other people and even his girls about me. You know what he believed to true - Like why we broke up - what is wrong with me - how my daughter was an issue - things he never told me, etc. I know this will...
- In my my grieving process I woke up this morning - in yet another panic as I do every morning - realizing the mind games that were being played on me and how I let those mind games get in my head. I have mentioned "speaking in riddles". I would be...
- Knew my first weekend without him and his girls would be tough, I stayed busy with my daughter yesterday. I went to church this morning where I was asked all kinds of questions about New Years and my BF. My daughter and his have been texting and...
- My ex's daughter (10) and my daughter (9) are the best of friends. My daughter knows what has happened but his daughter does not. The girls have been texting as normal this week. My daughter is under strict instruction not to tell because I feel it...
- This weekend he has his girls (10 and 6) and he will either tell them what happened or they will figure it out once we don't show up at their house or them to ours. They both made it very clear they wanted me as a stepmom and my daughter as a...