Ugh. I have been in and out of here over several years. I come in and read all the time but only post when in need. Well here I go again.....I took a nice long break from my last relationship. I entered into a Long distance relationship in April. Funny story really - my best male friend from high school's little brother just had to meet me. He bugged my friend forever before he gave him the thumbs up. I knew nothing about little bro except that he existed. We began to chat on FB and within a few weeks began texting and then phone calls. We became super close over the phone and he came to visit in mid-July. We have seen each other several times since then. I went out of state with him to meet his family (mom, aunts, cousins, etc). he and his bro came to see myself and a friend for my b-day. I went to see him a couple weeks ago. When I left things got weird. Everything was great there. Our goodbyes included I love you's and see you in a few weeks as we planned for him to come see me. The communication got sparse then I receive ugly drunk texts and phone calls in the middle of the night. Next day I received a text saying that he was pissed off that I wasn't there, it was too much, and he had to think about all this. I received a text a few days later saying he loves me but he knows I'm not moving there. That he can't financially can't make it here. No matter what our feelings we have to be smart. Tells me to tell him he is wrong. I did :-) because we had discussed this and said we did not have to figure it all out now. We have time. I receive a text the next night saying he loves me and wants to figure this out. He does not want to be without me but won't live without me either. He got mad because i did not respond to the midnight text until the next day. He blew off promised calls a couple nights then said he wanted to relax for the weekend (his bday too) and talk about it after. I text him and he committed to talk to me tomorrow night. I know what's going to happen. What the hell!! I did nothing and here I go again........ All I can figure out is that I left and his friends started asking where I was and he couldn't handle it. Let me throw in he has been divorced 4x. Of course - I thought I was different - that's what he told me and of course i believed it. As we started getting to know each other I learned more of his military service and what he saw in Iraq. Def some PTSD issues there. Why do I think I find a good one. Then bam!