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Devalue and rebound - by Natalie Lue

UndercoverAngel
UndercoverAngel
So many points in this article hit home for me - wow.


http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-someone-wants-you-to-devalue-you-based-on-their-previous-experiences-with-somebody-elsese/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+BaggageReclaim-TheGuideToSingleLivingDatingRelationshipsAndOfCourseManTaming+%28Baggage+Reclaim+Relationship+Blog%29
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deleted_user
Great article and I made a lot of sense. She used a very good example by comparing relationships to a business relationship and someone wanting you to devalue your services based on past experiences.

What I found to be the most interesting thing is that I realized that I do that to people myself. I get into relationships with men and I want them to lower their asking price. I am taking past experiences and asking them to make me feel comfortable before I proceed.

I am starting to realize that I hold men to a standard that I am not meeting myself. But I don't say this to put myself down it is part of the learning process and it helps me to see them less as the enemy and more like a brother who is struggling to grow just like me.