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- It will be ten years on thanksgiving since disclosure by my youngest son. Everyone here knows that it isn't just the victim that is emotionally scarred but everyone that is close to them as well. Well finally after years of hard work I was...
- We are so many years into disclosure and I think, I think my kids are all finely doing well. Finally not dwelling. Finally not harboring resentment. Finally able to keep growing and moving forward without having their hand continually held. Of...
- It's been eight and a half years since since disclosure and as of lately it's been going pretty smooth here for the most part. Though we still have things that trigger from time to time (at least for me there isn't a day that goes by I don't think...
- I'm a 48 yr old female who has had heart palpatations off and on for about 7 years (nothing dr were concerned about) and have been treated with metoprolol ER (25mg)for high BP. Five years ago i ended up in the hospital for several days because of...
- It's been a long long time since visiting...Eight and half years of dealing with this mess. Most times are good but we still have occasional setbacks...Today was one of those days. Kind of...My grandmother's 100th birthday is approaching and we...
- I don't even know where to begin or how to explain.Everyone here knows how these perps manipulate and twist things to turn family against you... OK, for the safety of MY children I will put up with turning my mother, my sister, aunts, uncles etc...
- I feel like going to sleep, waking up to feel like it was a bad dream. I feel like waving a white flag and surrendering. I feel like driving my car until I run out of gas and starting a new life. I want to roll up in a ball and cry until it is...
- We are days from the 7th anniversary of my son's disclosure. Thanksgiving 2007.., I've learned the triggers I've come to expect the outburst, the waves of unstable emotion, and the worst are ALWAYS the weeks preceding thanksgiving.Due to the death...
- Recently my place of employment (school) has offered Trauma Child training to better assist our students. I was very excited to attended these training sessions not only to help our students but to gain further insight into my own trauma child.Two...
- I'm requesting prayers, help & insight for both my family & my cousins.My cousins disabled son passed away unexpectedly. That in itself is horrific and I ask first and foremost for prayers for her, her husband, other children & all their extended...
- Several months before disclosure (not quite 8 at the time) my son developed a fear of showering, he said he was afraid sharks would come out of the faucet. Not knowing of the abuse at the time we thought it would just be a passing phase. Sometime...
- Next Thursday will be the anniversary (I hate using that word as I think of anniversary as something to celebrate, but I honestly can't think of another) of abuse. It happened on Thanksgiving day six years ago, my son was barely 8 now 14...When he...
- It's been nearly 6 years since my youngest son disclosed being fondled through clothing by his uncle. To make a long story short it happened numerous times during a game of "I'll tickle you until you pee in your pants" overtime the abuser became...
- So after disclosure nearly five years ago I did what I could to keep a positive relationship between my children and their grandmother (who sided with the abuser). I did everything I could to hide my mother's hateful comments (directed at me when...
- My son (nearly 13 - abuse happened nearly 5 yrs ago when he was 8) is tired of missing out on family functions because the pedophile (his uncle) will be there. He has clearly stated that every family function he misses because of him is one more...