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  Posted: 06/22/2021

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  Posted: 08/22/2020

  allthemonsters02 commented on the discussion Questions from Children.

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  Questions from Children

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  Last Reply: SunCloudJD 08/22/2020

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  Today one of the little girls I teach (I'm a dance instructor) asked me if I had pictures of my mom on my phone and I had to tell her I didnt. She was shocked when I told her I didn't and as a child does, she asked why. It was the most heart breaking thing to tell a little girl who believes her mother hung the moon and stars in the sky (her mom is my dance instructor) that my mom and I don't get along. I just want to know if there is a better way to answer questions like this in the future. I...

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  Injured people pleaser

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  Last Reply: Scaredandafraid 04/25/2020

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  I injured my ankle pretty badly yesterday and now cant go anywhere with out crutches, and I'm on strict orders to keep it elevated almost constantly because the swelling is really bad. Because of this I cant do much for myself, even though I try. I've already hurt myself multiple times things and carrying them, and I would ask for help if not for that fact that if I ask anyone in my family for quick assistance I'm met in an annoyed/ exasperated sigh. I feel like such a burden and I lowkey hate...

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  I dont love my brother

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  Last Reply: urbangardener 04/08/2020

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  To set this up, I'm the oldest of three siblings. My sister and I get along fine, and I care for her. My little brother came along when I was nine, and I have never felt anything for him. Especially in recent times. He drives me up the wall, he back mouths and insults everyone while getting away with it. He makes non stop noise and hits people. My mom has tried to discipline him, but my dad wont let anyone. I dont hate anyone, but I dont love my brother. I couldn't care less almost. He makes me...

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  Posted: 02/25/2020

  allthemonsters02 commented on the discussion Clutter.

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  Clutter

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  Last Reply: allthemonsters02 02/25/2020

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  I'm a bit of a scatter brain and can be a bit cluttered (nothing huge, just some laundry that needs to be folded on my bed or school stuff on my desk) and I share a room with my sister, who is an angel child you keep everything clutter free. I am trying so hard to be better about it but no one seems to recognize this and they constantly berate and belittle me for this one flaw. (I'm a busy person jumping from place to place between school, home, and ballet). Its gotten so bad I've started self...

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  Posted: 12/19/2019

  allthemonsters02 commented on the discussion Guilty about the Holidays.

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  Guilty about the Holidays

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  Last Reply: eli_mom 12/19/2019

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  I don't know if this is the right place to put this, but I just need to get this off my chest. We (my family and I) and not poor, but not wealthy, we are an average middle class family. I don't know if it's a self-worth issue or what, but I hate it when family members buy things for me, especially Christmas and my birthday. I get this overwhelming guilt and I would rather not get anything. The only things I'm fine with people buying me is nesecities or small things, but clothes, art supplies,...

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  I had an allergic reaction and now I'm scared of f

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  Last Reply: Tired 03/22/2019

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  I dont know if I put this under the correct group, but it fit the best.I love food. For my whole life I've eaten things (besides gluten which I'm intolerant to,) and been fine. I could pretty much eat anything sans gluten, but recently I developed an allergy to anchovies, which wasn't a big deal to me, then a couple of weeks ago I had lobster and shrimp for dinner and had an allergic reaction. Ever since then I've been terrified of food. Eating things I once did without giving it a second...

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  I'm Scared for my Mom

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  Last Reply: snflwrgrl 03/11/2019

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  My mom has always been a wine drinker, usualy it was only one or two glasses a week, normal, but recently it's gotten worse. She once went through a bottle and a half in a single night and generally drinks half to three quarters a bottle per night. I've gotten really worried recently and when I bring this up with her she blows up about needing something to numb herself with. It gets really bad on nights when she doesn't have any or we're out of wine. She become short tempered and quick to...

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  I don't know....

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  Last Reply: SunCloudJD 02/27/2019

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  My mom and dad are always at ends, and it seems no matter what anyone does, nothing is right. My dad, out of the goodness of his heart, will genuinly try to do something nice and sweet (in his head) for my mom, and maybe he doesn't get it exactly right, but still, the meaning is there, and my mom will just blow up at him. My sister and I will try to do something nice for her and still nothing works. It's so obvious my mom doesn't care for my dad (and yeah, that kind of hurts in a way), and that...

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  Posted: 02/26/2019

  allthemonsters02 joined the group Family Issues.

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  Posted: 12/02/2018

  allthemonsters02 commented on the discussion My parents.

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  Posted: 11/28/2018

  allthemonsters02 commented on the discussion My parents.