Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
My mom and dad are always at ends, and it seems no matter what anyone does, nothing is right. My dad, out of the goodness of his heart, will genuinly try to do something nice and sweet (in his head) for my mom, and maybe he doesn't get it exactly right, but still, the meaning is there, and my mom will just blow up at him. My sister and I will try to do something nice for her and still nothing works. It's so obvious my mom doesn't care for my dad (and yeah, that kind of hurts in a way), and that she is so miserable here, I wish she would just leave. I used to get depressed and sad thinking about it, but now I'm just angry and annoyed. If she's hates dad so much she should just leave. I know they got couples counciling about ten years ago, but as far as I can tell it didn't do diddly-squat. I'm always angry and walking around with a short temper and I just wish everything would work out.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
Relationships between two people can be really complicated and there will be a lot felt and said that their children won't know or hear
You could always have a talk with your mom when things are calm and simply say " it hurts me a lot when...…" and state what hurts but without attacking her
If a person feels attacked they go on the defensive.... Let her know what hurts you
Tell her you'd like to work on family dynamics so that things can be better in the home and suggest that everyone have a part in making things better
Your mom and dad will have to figure out their marriage on their own though.....
Gentle hug.....xo