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I'm Scared for my Mom

allthemonsters02
allthemonsters02

My mom has always been a wine drinker, usualy it was only one or two glasses a week, normal, but recently it's gotten worse. She once went through a bottle and a half in a single night and generally drinks half to three quarters a bottle per night. I've gotten really worried recently and when I bring this up with her she blows up about needing something to numb herself with. It gets really bad on nights when she doesn't have any or we're out of wine. She become short tempered and quick to explode. I hate to say it, but I almost like my mom better when she's drunk, she's not mad, or angry at anyone, she doesn't belittle and shout. I don't know what to do and I'm scared for her.

patti22
patti22
Can you talk to your father or an extended family member about your concerns?
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I agree to talk with another family member.... You shouldn't have to be with a mom that's either drunk or explosive

It is an illness.... You could also talk with your family doctor about it..... Gentle hug....xo
snflwrgrl
snflwrgrl
Do you know why she feels like she has to numb herself? :’( Do you think she would consider talking to her doctor or a counselor? I like the other poster’s suggestion too, of talking to another caring and loving family member like yourself to get their opinion and support. Is there ever a good time when she might be more open to listening if you were to tell her how very much you love her and that you’re concerned for her? I applaud you! for reaching out. I’ll be praying for you and for your mom.
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