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  Posted: 04/23/2020

  monsolo commented on the discussion Emotional support.

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  Posted: 01/26/2017

  monsolo became friends with Newbeginnings4me.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/26/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion What works.

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  What works

  Posted by: monsolo

  Last Reply: learningselfvalue 01/27/2017

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  It's been a real challenge since learning about my wife's affair.  We are still together, trying to be a success story.  If things don't work out, we can tell our daughter and our family and friends that we tried.  Through this process, I've been in pain, heart broken, insecure, lonely, etc.  You know.  But I've also done a few things that are helping:- Talk to friends, but be present for them too- Journal, but don't re-read them.  Don't keep reliving it.  Just release it.- Exercise-...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 01/24/2017

  monsolo became friends with belewj81.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/23/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion gut feelings....

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  Posted: 01/19/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion The Journey Begins.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/19/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion It's Sad....

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/16/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion Newly Separated and not coping well.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/16/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion Keep Trying or Move on?.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/14/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion Keep Trying or Move on?.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 01/14/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion Keep Trying or Move on?.

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  Keep Trying or Move on?

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  Last Reply: monsolo 01/16/2017

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  One month ago, my wife of 10 years, asked me to "set her free" and that she has feelings for someone else.  Turns out that she's been holding a secret for almost a year and that she has been living a double life.  She was expecting me to get mad and show her the door, but instead I felt compassion for why she made her decisions.  I saw how the ways we were disconnected affected her choices.  I saw how my actions caused her distance.  I look back at our relationship and don't even recognize...

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: monsolo

  Posted: 01/13/2017

  monsolo commented on the discussion Set a Goal Today.

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  Posted: 01/13/2017

  monsolo joined the group Infidelity.