Hello,

I am reaching out to get advice or help from other spouses that are going through their husband transistiong from MTF.

I am not coping with this at all! I'm having a very difficult time. I don't know where to turn or who to talk too?  No way I can talk to family members,or friends. If i try talking to my husband and I ask any question, he gets mad and we end up in a fight! I'm sick of it to tell you the truth! He's not the only one going through this, you dropped a bomb on me! Our life is upside down! I'm worked up everyday. I sometimes cannot look at him because I am still in shock that he wants to do this. What happened to the masquline, goodloking man I met and fell in love with 28years ago? He has always taken care of himself from head to toe. Dresses sharp, hair always nice. Mr. GQ! I will be loosing him in time. His mind is still him, but the physical appearence will be gone forever. I'm scared I can't do it...stay. I don't want to loose him but I am, I think I have already. Our relationship has changed drastically. I feel like we are "friends" not a married couple. It's not the same. Have any of you experienced lack of intamacy and just the feeling he's not really into you anymore? Any advice will be helpful!

Thank you in advance