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First of all, I would like to clarify that this thread is in no way intended to be disrespectful to anyone.
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
If anyone sees it, can they let me know? thanks.
I had a bf years and years ago who wore one and I would crack up every time he had it on. He was a tall musclely guy ... it just didn't fit.
I agree, it can become routine and some times a challenge or a bore. I think many times we can focus too much on sex and forget the little things that are really sensual such as touching, kissing, and terms of endearment.
Again. No idea.
In the pasture here.