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First of all, I would like to clarify that this thread is in no way intended to be disrespectful to anyone.
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
*goes for walk to think about next taco thread*
I have been told that sensitivity in men is not a sexual turn-on. How true is that? Apparently it was true with me ex wife who chose the alpha male asshole over the nice sensitive guy. I was warm and catered to her. He threw her down a flight of stairs. I'm beginning to think women want sensitive caring men as friends but they're not someone any woman would want to FUCK.
Maybe I should start juicing again. I had more women throwing themselves at me when I was a roid raged asshole.
I have had enough bad boys in my life to make me avoid them like the plague
I am sure a sensitive man could be wild in bed, not that I want wild, but a change of pace is always good..
I've had the bad boy with my husband as far as sex goes. When we do have sex it's always wild. I definitely would love a calm, sensitive man but I seriously don't know how I'd be able to tolerate one because I'm afraid I'd get bored of them in that area if they aren't wild enough. ugh.
Guess I had it coming then when my wife cheated on me.
Lesson fucking learned.
I'll ask again. In 1999 when I was shooting Test into my ass I had women throwing themselves at me. It was the only time in my life when that happened. Otherwise I'm shy. (Shyness is a goddamn curse by the way). Would someone please care to explain that?