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First of all, I would like to clarify that this thread is in no way intended to be disrespectful to anyone.
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
With that being said, I have always wondered how people lose their libido, or desire to have sexual relations. My wife basically lost it all after our children were born. For me this was extremely difficult for me to handle. But I did handle it for years and stood by her side patiently (until she dumped my ass).
Where did the libido go? Should someone in a relationship still make an effort to please their partner even though they have no libido?
sensitive/nice is a great thing. Don't change that, really. the women that want the bad boy deserve him. I know I used to, and i got what I deserved. A bunch of crap and heartache.
Whil I'm busy embarrasing myself I'll say this: I hooked up with someone when I was going through my roid phase. The first date was pleasant. The second date we watched a movie at her place at which time she threw herself at me. I was attracted, but I hit the brakes on her saying this is happning too fast (theres that sensitive moral curse of mine) and that I wanted to wait.
"ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???!!!"
That was the last time I saw her.
Those words burned in me for a long time. I felt like I was verbally castrated. By now you're starting to get why I have had such fucked up views on relationships.
Me, I'd like my next gf to be smart : p
I have had bad boys all my life..They are unpredictable at least the ones I have been with..
I would be thrilled to find a caring and compassionate man, and I have a few tricks up my sleeve on how to spice up actions in the bedroom..But to have someone be sensual would be something I have never had, and it is something I would rather have than wild sex..