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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
but ...mine would roll his dirty socks together before tossing them into wash. Then it was my fault when they came through the other end, still rolled together, and still wet, because I didn't pull them apart before doing a load of wash. Duhhhh???
Not to mention when he drinks out of a cup, he can't do without slurping. What's up with that? Does he not know how to drink? OK, I'm on a roll now. He talks WAY TOO LOUD. On the phone, in a store, anywhere and people turn and look at him. I wish he'd get a hearing aid or miracle ear or something!!!!! It's like he wants everyone to know his business. I'm much more reserved and quiet. I can't stand it when he talks so loud!
STBX put his finger up his nose all the time. (GROSS)
My stbx used to chew tobacco - NASTY!!!
Even worse, he would spit it in coke cans and once I mistaked his can for my drink - UNBELIEVABLY NASTY!!!
One time my ex got up while he was still sleep and went to "his" closet (thank God it wasn't mine) and started peeing. The sound of his pee woke me up and I screamed his name. When he realized what he was doing he laughed and finished his pee and didn't even try to clean it up. Just nasty...I had to clean it up later to avoid the stench...what a loser!!!!\
**He took sleeping bills all the time, so I drove myself to the ER twice!!
**He would weak me up in the middle of the night to continue fights that ended hours ago!!
WOW, that makes me feel better, I was so sad b/c he emailed me a punch of pictures and videos from our wedding and vacations!!