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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
1. he never remembered my birthday or our anniversary..well that is until the last 2 years because he had to hear about for the previous 4 yrs LOL Very inconsiderate.
2. I used to find my coffee cups full of his disgusting spit and chewing tobacco. Friggin' disgusting! or the empty coke bottles full of his chew...really gross!
3. He never helped me shovel the driveway in the winter. he would back out the 4 wheel drive vehicle and leave me to shovel the driveway so i could get my little VW out. (Mind you..im on the Canadian border..and when it snows..we're talking FEET of snow. Then he would get home 3 hours before I did in the evening and if it snowed again I would have to shovel the driveway AGAIN just to get my car in. bastard!
Callo--Don't get me wrong, I do not hate my husband. In fact I still love him (not sure why), but I have goals in my life and he doesn't have any goals except for drinking, sleeping 12-15 hours a day, and not wanting to work.
#3 We had the same thing going on here. I always had to shovel our long driveway just so I could get my car out of the garage to go to WORK while he stayed in bed and slept! He bucked me when I wanted a snowblower (even though I was the one buying it) and said "we" didn't need one. Well, I bought one and guess who had to be the first one to try it out? Not me!
I could add several other pet peeves to this list..LOL
He was so anal you know like sleeping with the enemy type, if the towel were not perfect on the wrack I got chewed out. (I would purposley mess it up just to piss him off)
Horrible in bed.
The list can go on and on and on