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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
(a) While at work one day he decided to cook a steak on my brand new stove on the burner! Wrecked the damn burner!
(b) I left him my brand new car to use for the day while I was at work and I drove one of the company vehicles. He discovered that the car had an LED speedometer that also registered the speed in reverse so he drove it in reverse on the main street in town to see how fast he could get it to read out. That same day he took it out in the dessert and buried it in the sand!
1. Felt that not cleaning the house was a sign of creativity and was not necessary.
2. All women, especially her, only needed sex and intimacy once a month (I hope that is not true).
The things that bothered me the most and oddly enough still do is that he does not brush his teeth daily nor does he clean his ears!! His socks smell,and when he shaves his head, he leaves little patches. I used to tell him cause I felt bad, but now that he is gone, he can look like a Hari-Crishna! He is constantly asking people to "hold his happy finger and he will make it wiggle if they want" Men or women get the "hold my finger" he is always making strange noises, like barking and I dont know why the hell I ever married this freak!! Wait, theres more! He would fall asleep in the bath tub every night. By the time I woke up in the morning, there would be no water just a shrivled up thing with a huge beer belly laying there-What a turn on- and he wonders...Lots of times he would wait days to shower, hense the stinky socks. He truly believes that he can "take" (beat up) anyone when he is mad, like anyone would be afraid of a Hari-Chrisna with rotting teeth and yellow gunk running out of his ears!!! He got stung by a bee and now his happy finger is real big and he cant wait to have people hold it! And, he has no hair on his legs from the knees down so he wears long socks up to his knees with shorts!