STex
Status:
Mood:
Ok
- Not sure why I'm being left out by friends, but I guess that is part of the territory. That and the other guy is friends with all our friends. Oh and there is the rumor that it was me having the affair with his wife. Ain't life grand.
- I never really had a lot of empathy for people going through a divorce or seperation, always thought it must be what they both wanted, I'll stay out of it...etc. I now realize there are so many hurting, grieving, suffering great anguish over their...
- Can you really not know if you want to be with someone? After 25 yrs I would think you would either want to try or move on. I am just miserable and it is so hard to not reach out. I do it then regret it, I try to stay strong and hold it together,...
- So we live in a fairly large city, Son has always gone to the best schools, I have been on lots of Boards, we belong to the "right" club...blah blah blah. Trust me when I say my priorities have changed. Today, my son told me that kids are spreading...
- Having a hard time dealing with extreme panic, I am meeting with my wife this afternoon just to discuss our situation. I have the extreme dread that this will be it. One moment I will be relieved, the next devastated. I am seeing a counselor, going...
- I am trying to hold up but I just want to quit. My anxiety is through the roof and all the doctors I have called cant see me for weeks. I need someone NOW. The hurt and lonliness are overwhelming me today and I just cant shake it.
- 3:30am and I am still awake. I just want to scream. Its not fair that while she was grieving for our marriage, she would tell me everything is ok, that she loved me very much. I have only had 4 weeks to grieve and find out about her feelings for my...
- I guess some of you are right, my wife is just showing herself that she can be around me. I have been up since 2am and just feel like I have nothing left. What's next? Just no contact? I didn't talk to her for a few days and she starts texting, so...
- My wife texted me asking if I would come eat with her and our son tonight. I responded that I did not think it was a good idea, as the pain is just to great for me and that we are just not on the same page. I told her just seeing our dogs yesterday...
- I am going to try my hardest to keep it together today, stay positive, put the bad thoughts on hold. I hope and pray that all of you have a great day too.
- I am going through that stupid transition phase right now living in a strange place without my things, pets, kid in the room next door. As many of you know, we were trying to stay under the same roof, because we need to sell, but it literally had my...
- I just could not it anymore yesterday. The waiting to see if she wanted to talk everyday was killing me. I guess she will have lots of time now. There were just waves of pain yesterday, I was thinking back to our last fun time at the beach, the end...
- Just read this "Even if you choose to stay together, something has been irretrievably lost; your innocent belief that you would be true to each otherand all that applied. Whatever you create from here will be different, hopefully better, but...
- There is a divorce care group nearby, the are on the 4th session. For those of you who went to this, is it ok to start Or do I need to wait for the next group?
- Woke up this morning with the same resolve I went to sleep with! I woke up at 3:30am but I suppose that will eventually get better. I am not nieve to think there won't be bad days, but the since of clarity and release of my guilt has been eye...