Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just could not it anymore yesterday. The waiting to see if she wanted to talk everyday was killing me. I guess she will have lots of time now. There were just waves of pain yesterday, I was thinking back to our last fun time at the beach, the end of summer and realized that she left to go with him to get hamburger buns. How stupid his wife and I were. I just had to leave so I packed up most of my things and drove to my mother's. So here I am 50 years old living with my mom...how pathetic. I just feel like a huge loser.
This time away from her will do you good. Have you talked to an attorney? If you own your house you should get legal advice before packing up and leaving it..time to get really proactive about your future and financial well being. Sorry you're going through it, I know exactly how you feel. Myself, I threw her out to go live with her mother and threw all her shit into hefty bags and then into the garage. She wanted to cheat and then dump me...fine. Adios. That was 2 1/2 years ago. Once she was gone though is when the healing started. Living with her was a nightmare by then.
A good Lawyer will have your back and Watch out
For you financially and legally. I was not capable of
much rational decision making during my divorce.
HUGS