Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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STex 10/26/2016

Can you really not know if you want to be with someone? After 25 yrs I would think you would either want to try or move on. I am just miserable and it is so hard to not reach out. I do it then regret it, I try to stay strong and hold it together, but then I am reduced to nothing again. I've been pretty good all week but today has just been hard.

ltwist 10/26/2016

Stex, it's a wave...the grief from separating, divorcing, etc....you have to ride with it. Sometimes you'll feel you've got life by the balls and others all you can do is brood about what ifs. It sucks. Sorry you have to go through this. But life will get better. And truly low or no contact only expedites the healing. Be strong.

kbbcoop77 10/26/2016

Now you know why they call this journey a roller coaster. You will go through many ups and downs but thankfully it all starts mellowing out eventually. It just takes time but believe me you'll come out stronger in the long run

mirandac 10/26/2016

I still ride the rollercoaster, it takes Time
and everyones grief journey is different.

It usually takes three years after the
divorce to normalize.

Your into the acceptance phase and your
Life is moving forward. All that turmoil and
Confusion should be gone. You have hopes,
dreams and goals. You are no longer Stuck
in the past. HUGS

Victoria418 10/26/2016

Hang in there!! Hoping next week you have some peace!!

STex 10/27/2016

Thanks for the replies everyone. I just hate the current phase where I am being told I need time. I have put it in Gods hands, but I keep trying to take it back. Why do we always want the hard way and not Gods way? I hope you all have an anxiety free day! I will do my best to keep the sadness from overwhelming me.

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