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- one of our sons is in the hospital so when I came up yesterday. I had a flood of memory's . Same hospital they brought Tommy to the nite he passed away. And today my son is having surgery on his prostate, wishing tommy was here for me to lean...
- I got this.... I'm doing good .... I'm making it.ok well guess what? I was wrong.i don't have nitemare very often but when I did Tommy was always there to comfort me.so last nite I woke up standing in the hall, it shocked me, took me a minute to...
- this couple in church have been married 25 years and today they redid their marriages.... Bittersweet for me. It was beautiful and he sang to her and I weeped like a baby.tommy and I would be married for 37 years this wednesday13th
- I hope it's okay to post this and I hope I post it right. This is very sad, it just tore me up but I think everyone should see this..... This is a example of what all the cop killing is doing to childrenplease...
- 5 months ago he passed away and today our youngest turned 21. And I set here crying and mad. I'm mad at him for leaving me with this lonely life. And for not listening to me when I tried to get him to take better care of himself. He was so...
- I wonder why I am always amazed. I have had a few bad days dealing with missing Tommy and I thought today would be really bad but it's not . I constantly have to remind myself "God is able"and my first thought on days like this is "Somebody's...
- tommy and I usually do the cooking together :( this years our kids are doing it. I feel so lost and lonely:(i hate it. I'm just trying to remain positive and it isnt easy.im still having trouble with this 'new'site. I have to change my password...
- My son came by with a friend today and as they were leaving, I always hug my kids but his friend is a real tall guy came over to me a just wrapped me up in the biggest hug. It felt so good .....just to be hugged. (different kinda hug from your kids...
- First let say......Not me .I have a friend that just got remarried. Her husband has been gone for year. People are being so hard on her, even her family.I told her 'everyone grieves different and it's her choice, not noone else'And on the plus side,...
- Have any of you seen them grieve? Lil'bit is a fox terrier and she belongs to all of us but she was really close to Tommy and I swear that little dog will set in his spot and look at me with that pleading look like 'where is he? And she looks so...
- Tomorrow ....... It can not get here soon enough. I start therapy. I know I need it. I pray it's everything I hope it to be. Have any of you had good experience doing therapy ? Or what has helped?
- So I just finished watching this cute like show and I highly recommend it. It will make you laugh and smile. And yes it is a cartoon :) but they are so cute! And the song on the show really got me.It was sang by Shakira "try everything" but the...
- Today is 4 months that Tommy has been gone :(I miss him so much It's so hard to not see him, hug him . Or talk to himI want him home so bad :(It still sometimes hits me so hard cause it seems like he should becoming thur the front door any minute.I...
- Tommy has been gone 4 months today :(So it's a very sad day for me and it hurts cause I miss him so much:(I just want him home and to hug him :( I miss his hugsI miss everything about him
- I didn't know this group was here. I just recently had joined the other widows and widowers site. Anyway . I was married to Tommy for 36 years but now he's gone and all I can do is cry and miss him so much :(He had a heart attack on feb.6.....I...