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  Posted: 08/06/2018

  september2014 commented on the discussion “Taking it slow”.

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  “Taking it slow”

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  Last Reply: urbangardener 08/06/2018

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  Hey there, guess it’s been awhile, but looking for some advice. Things didn’t end well with my ex back in the fall, some of you saw and responded to my posts and I really appreciated the advice/support. I *finally* started seeing someone new a little over a month ago. Wanted to really give myself time to heal and move on from things. This guy has been a good friend of mine since high school, we’re in our early 30’s now. We had been hanging out more and more and then things just...

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  Posted: 12/21/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion I don’t even know this person.

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  I don’t even know this person

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  Last Reply: Aronia 12/21/2017

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  So, if you hang out on here, you probably already know that my boyfriend and I split up and I had been wanting to get things back on track. But that is so off the table and I’ve never been more disgusted in my whole life. My ex had smoked pot all the time, which didn’t really bother me...it’s not my thing, but it never annoyed me. He had used some other things (coke, ecstasy) recreationally in the past but I made it REALLY effing clear that that was not going to fly. And he...

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  Posted: 12/10/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion How to start over.

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  Posted: 12/10/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion How to start over.

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  Posted: 12/10/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion Issues with my wife.

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  Posted: 12/10/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion I just don't know anymore.

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  Posted: 12/10/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion Am I expecting wrong ?.

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  How to start over

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  Last Reply: Aronia 12/12/2017

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  My boyfriend and I broke up almost two months ago. He initially wanted to keep being friends and was supportive knowing that I was going through hell, but I eventually asked him to stop talking to me because it was only making it worse. Went awhile on that track but it wasn’t getting better. It’s still not any better  In the last couple weeks, I’ve started talking to him again. We ended up meeting for drinks and everything is still there. He even teared up at one point and said that he...

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  Posted: 10/29/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion Having trouble coping.

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  Having trouble coping

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  Last Reply: rmb 11/02/2017

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  It's been two weeks since my boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere. There are still a lot of things going on that are confusing the hell out of me. He came to the house earlier this week because he was supposed to move his stuff out, but he came over while I was at work and only took his clothes and toiletries. He left big stuff like the TV, video game systems, kitchen stuff, and several other personal things. He said that he took what he could and he would make arrangements for the rest,...

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  Posted: 10/24/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion Communicating.

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  Posted: 10/22/2017

  september2014 commented on the discussion Communicating.

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  Communicating

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  Last Reply: september2014 10/24/2017

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  I posted on here earlier this week that my boyfriend and I had broken up. In the meantime, neither of us has been doing well. He saw my friend on Wednesday and told her that he missed me, that he missed being home with me. That he had stopped by the house to grab a couple things and broke down and had to go sit in his car for 45 minutes before he could go back in. I talked to him on Thursday and asked if we could work this. He said that he’s never been able to love anyone before, so I told...