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My boyfriend of two months, yes TWO months... is sleeping still. It is 5:12 Pm on a Thursday...
Today is second day off from work. I worked all day. I came home 2 hours ago. House is filthy. He did nothing but play video games, watch porn (I snooped..) and sleep.
I know it's very new but we think we are in love, at least I thought so.
Within the first 2 weeks. We were living together. I just felt he was the one.
Typing this makes me feel silly and stupid. Was I lonely? Is it really Love?
I feel hard and fast. Like usual. Why do I do this??
There is more bothering me too..like him not being open to his feelings towards me.. would it hurt if he told me im beautiful? We have a connection but I wish he could just communicate with me...
Here it is, almost Christmas time. I feel lost and broken. I have a 12 yr old son that lives with me. I may lose my apartment. I am broke. I feel so emotionally disconnected from my boyfriend.
Why do I always look past the bad things?? I like to see the good in people.
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Look at what my best friend did with my picture!
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We all have 24 hours in a day. How we spend these hours is important. Watching a little bit of a video about how sitting affects us made me aware of how much sitting and laying down I do. Gonna have to work on that.Your turn. Tell me another truth.
As for old dude I'd tell him to kick rocks NOW! I usually don't give an opinion like this , however I can't get past the fact that your son and you are looking at homelessness yet you're worried about what he's doing, well not doing. He shouldn't even be taking up space in your life right now because how is he helping you and your son? A real man would be doing whatever it takes making sure you guys won't be homeless.
You're not stupid but fooling with him at this moment in your life seems to be a really bad decision! I get the feeling of being alone but take a look at the big picture...you have him yet you're still alone.
And the guy is watching porn and playing video games ???
Have you considered how this may affect your child To have a stranger crash into his life and what is suppose to be his safe place?
Even if you knew this person for more than two months, kids need time to adjust to the fact that their parent is in a relationship.
Why was it important for him to move on with you so fast ?