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- I have almost always been a romantic. I do all the things that show how much I love my wife. She has changed a whole lot since her affair and works for a better relationship and does a lot of the things needed for us to have a wonderful and happy...
- I hope that everyone has a wonderful Christmas and that we can all find the ability to see the good things in our lives and try as hard as it is to set aside all of the negative feelings that are in some of our hearts for this time.Christmas is a...
- Hello everyone its been real quiet around here.Just wanted to say that I hope everything is going well with everyone and that shopping to much is not getting the best of everyone.This X-mas is a whole whole lot better than the last for me, hey I am...
- I know that a few months ago I probably would not even be able to look at the post on CA. Everyone here has helped me a lot, helped me understand the different perspectives and sides there are to affairs. You all have helped me realize things about...
- There are a lot of BS that feel this way and a lot of (Not so helpful information out there that thinks Once a Cheater always a Cheater)I personally as the BS do not and could never by into this concept and seriously doubt that people that think...
- I was always had full commitment to my M and there was always this I know no matter what happens will we always be together feeling. That was before the affair and now I just do not seem to have that same way of thinking even though I want to I no...
- It is the time of year when we look at what all we are thankful for. I know sometimes it is hard to see the positives but there are always positives as negatives in life. Lets take a look at some positives!!!Please let me know what you are thankful...
- Did you get judged for the affair? How was your CS judged for the affair?Friends, family and the public if you have brought your story out in the open?I did have to deal with some judgement but ended most of the relationships that I found people...
- I am a BS never had a retaliatory affair and probably never will since I am passed the stage of wanting to punish my wife, but it definatly crossed my mind a lot of times. Very glad I never did. Just saw that this board was quite and was wondering...
- I am feeling positive about things today! Life is really good and there are a lot of ups and downs in life. I am Thankful for God to be with me, that he has helped me day to day.I hope that everyone is having a good day.If you are feeling down just...
- We will be moving to a new city soon. It is actually back home where we met and we will be back around family. I think it is great that we are moving back home for a little while. I am so excited to give our son the opportunity to be back around his...
- I have trouble with forgiveness. I have forgave my wife and try real hard to live my life as I have forgave her.Have I really forgave her though? I still think about the affair everyday, I do not trust her at all when she is out of town for work...
- I am a BS so I am not real sure how well this will get answered or if a lot of you do not just try and push me away because of that. The A was about a year ago and on a lot of times I still have serious problems with trust. My question to the CS's...
- I with all of my being want to love my wife the way I used to. It seems like that is lost. I do love my wife but nothing like before the A, I just can not seem to get past the protecting of my heart. I never before the A was worried about keeping my...
- Hello, just figured I would post a light topic for once that would be nice to see how all of the CS's tried to hide there affairs. So what were the Red Flags that you ignored or brushed off until finding out the truth? My wife gave me so many...