Somerdad34
Status: Staying strong. Everything can change without warning
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- My stbx wants me to pay for more than half of the hebrew school tuition. Since she owes me half of the stimulus check and it equals the tuition, my lawyer suggests that I do not owe her anything.Well, my stbx doesn't like that idea. She thinks the...
- Just got a call from my wife and she asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with her and the kids.THERE IS A RESTRAINING ORDER ON ME, which she wanted.Of course I said NO.I'm not going to fall for her trap anymore. She has lied to me so many times, i...
- I have the kids today and they are staying overnight. Since it is the summer, they are allowed to go to bed at 10pm. I had plans to go out tonight right after the kids go to bed. I told the babysitter to come right before the kids go to bed so they...
- I just got a phone call from my lawyer. My stbx is asking for more money than I normally give her, which $2000/month. She wants me to pay for the exterminator because now there is a bat problem in the house. She also wants me to pay for the kids'...
- I don't get my stbx at all. She keeps using the kids time as some sort of currency. She thinks by letting me have the kids, other than the specified time, that I should thank her because she is doing me a favor.The reason for the extra time is...
- My kids and stbx just got back from OC MD yesterday. They were away for a whole week. The last time I saw my kids was over a week ago.Tonight my company had family night at the Somerset Patriots ballpark. It was my night and weekend with the kids....
- For my own curiosity.When is the best time to introduce the OW or OM to the kids?My stbx already did, but she only told the kids he is just a friend who is around alot.I started dating, I am no where near being serious with anybody, so I won't be...
- Every year at this time, my family goes to Ocean City, MD, because we own a timeshare there. Well, this year, I am not there. In fact, I am at my desk "working". All I keep thinking about, is what I am supposed to be doing right now in OC. I am...
- I wrote this in my journal.My wife is so petty. She will not give me my Boogie Board that I bought last year. She is saying, since I broke her father's boogie board, which he gave me, that it doesn't belong to me and I can't have it. It's a fucking...
- I just can't shake this feeling of jealousy and anger. I am trying to move on, but this feeling keeps creeping back in. My friends keep telling me the only way to shake it off is to go out and get a girlfriend of my own. That is a problem for me...
- Ever since I moved in to my new apartment, I find my self to be in a good place, physically and emotionally. I guess moving to a new place helped a lot in coping with my separation. I find myself to be self sufficient and self motivated. Here are...
- I just found out from the kids that my F!@#$% stbx has been sending my mail back. So now I don't know what bills is over due or something. Isn't this illegal?
- Here is an email I got from my stbx. My wife is a control freak. If she doesn't get what she wants she gets even. I don't want to show her my new place because it is mine and she is not welcome.================As per the restraining order paper, you...
- My wife just picked up the kids. I watch the kids way past the agreed parenting time. My wife just took the kids I didn't even have time to kiss them good bye. She almost ran me over. She won't let them say good bye to me. I saw them in the car...
- I was talking to my therapist today and she asked me how I am doing. To my suprise, I told her I am in a good place right now. This RO has been a blessing. The no contact rule definitely works in helping me moving on. I told her, I learned how to be...