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I wrote this in my journal.
My wife is so petty. She will not give me my Boogie Board that I bought last year. She is saying, since I broke her father's boogie board, which he gave me, that it doesn't belong to me and I can't have it. It's a fucking boogie board and she is giving me a hard time about it.
I hate her so much. She will do anything to push my buttons. She is fucking moron. I hate her. She keeps saying amicable relations, fuck amicable if this is how she treats me.
I can't wait to get all my stuff out of the house. She will use anything to control me or to rile me.
Thanks for DS, I let out my frustration here. I CAN"T BELIEVE HOW PETTY SHE IS. SHE IS A FUCKING NUTSOID.
My wife is so petty. She will not give me my Boogie Board that I bought last year. She is saying, since I broke her father's boogie board, which he gave me, that it doesn't belong to me and I can't have it. It's a fucking boogie board and she is giving me a hard time about it.
I hate her so much. She will do anything to push my buttons. She is fucking moron. I hate her. She keeps saying amicable relations, fuck amicable if this is how she treats me.
I can't wait to get all my stuff out of the house. She will use anything to control me or to rile me.
Thanks for DS, I let out my frustration here. I CAN"T BELIEVE HOW PETTY SHE IS. SHE IS A FUCKING NUTSOID.
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
My first yoga teacher was going thru her divorce, and her ex wanted to keep half of the yoga supplies. We are talking about alot of money in things that he could never use. We all still shake our heads at that one.
I hope you get all of your stuff from her soon. You all have taught me a lesson, and when I move this month I am taking everything so I never have to wait for him to give something back to me.
It seems as though she is going to do whatever she can to push your buttons for a reaction from you. If you stop reacting then she will most likely stop her childish behavior when she sees it has no effect on you. I would think that buying a new board for yourself would go a long way for your sanity. JMHO.. {{HUGS}}
He expects me to just let him come in and get whatever he likes, but when I want something, I have to play "Mother, may I" and jump through hoops and set appointments, etc. It's all bulls*&t.
Like I've told my friends and family, stuff is stuff. It doesn't measure who you are. Let her keep the board. Take your power back.
Hugs for a very riled up, pissed off guy!
It's not about the boogie board, I can buy one with no problem. The problem is the stbx's pettiness. Just imagine what I have to go through with something significant.
Ive seen other posts with people saying "Get a lawyer and get everything".. etc... Im embarrassed by the way Ive behaved at times through this, the insults Ive made to his girlfriend... (ok she is a skank who moved in with a married man a MONTH after she knew him).. but Im still feeling bad I took the low road and let him know my opinion..
Perfect example.. the movie "War of the Roses"... I love that movie.. and since none of us have gotten THAT bad yet.. I think we are all doing ok