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- I don't know if I should be posting here anymore, if I'm allowed. See, my Mom passed 3 weeks ago after 4 long years of suffering. She went peacefully in her sleep, heart attack probably, in her own bed. Her biggest worry was losing this house, or...
- My Mom passed a week ago after 4 years of pure hell... hers and mine! Her slow mental decline was terrible to watch, the woman she became was not my Mom... couldn't even make it to BR, constantly worried about EVERYTHING, thinking I was sending her...
- My Mom insists local nursing home is calling her and saying they're coming to pick her up. Even if I leave the house for five minutes, they have called and told her that! Its driving me crazy(20x/day for a year), but I can only imagine how scared it...
- When your Mom needs to be in a home, but she refuses to even get in your car because she's afraid you will take her "somewhere"- how do you get her there?!
- I've been living with my mom who has dementia for the past 3 years. She can still bathe, eat and go to the bathroom herself...I monitor her meds,money, bills, etc,.and I'm trying my best to keep her in her own home, but she's becoming very abusive...
- My Mom is really falling apart!She still knows how to put on a good front for the doctor so he doesn't think shes too bad! But living with her!?! Right now she climbed on a chair trying to reach something in a cabinet and really limps! Won't let me...
- My Mom never shuts up! The only relief and peace I get is the 3 hours/night she sleeps and when I'm at work. She has a list of 12 questions that she wants answers to and she asks them over and over. ( Over 1/2 of them are fears she has that are not...
- People keep telling me I can sell my Moms house to pay for her care and the home can make me do that! I live in the home cause I cared for her and the lawyer tells me that I am entitled to live in it until she dies! They can't force me to sell it! ...
- I can't find any info on this subject and I am really curious! My parents were so different(don't know how they ever got together in the first place!) and their dementia is so different! Does one have anything to do with the other!My Dad was...
- And I love my animals more than anything in the world! I had Guinea Pigs for nine years ...Coco, Sunshine and Cotton.. The last few months of Cottons life, a Mom and Dad feral pair took up residence in my garage and they had 2 babies. Before my...
- I just found out I have a cataract developing and I will probably need it taken care of soon and I'm scared to death! Not of the surgery or the recovery, I know that's not difficult. My problem is I have no one to help me get to the hospital or no...
- My Mom is convinced a certain nursing home is calling and says they're coming to get her. ( Its the same home she put her Dad in 30 years ago when he had the same condition she has; he was only there a month and he died so I think maybe on some...
- Its time for my Mom to be in a home! Shes still OK physically but she is very abusive towards me... just today trying to discuss letting me give her some medication the dr prescribed resulted in broken finger of mine cause I was trying to avoid...
- I hate to say this but I don't love my mother! Haven't for a long time! She has been such a bitch to everyone that right now I'm the only one in the family who has stepped up! Drove my sweet Father away but always kept in contact with me! Not my...
- Moms routine was when her S.S. check went into Direct Deposit, I would take her to the bank, get it cashed, she would separate the money into her budget envelopes marked electric. water, cable, etc. ,then when the bills came in, she'd give me the...