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- I will be brief and that is not like me.But I awoke with a bad migrane headache and all of it is due to worry and I have to rest and lie down.All I can say is that I really miss Frank.but I do not wear my heart on my sleeve.You have to be strong for...
- I want to celebrate Franks life and I do not know how.All I have been doing here lately is crying and Brad is very hard to life with.How do you celebrate a life?How do you do? I am trying very hard everyday and today I went for breakfast by myself.I...
- The anniversay of franks death is next saturday.He died on 8/1/2004 and I will never forget that phone call.I have been busy all day doing all of my chores.I do all of the landury and dusting on Monday and i had 3 loads today.Frank always did his...
- i have got a story to share and everyone must know this.Brad and I were is in a very bad way last year.I wasnt working and he was laid off and we just paid the rent.Noone knew about this.After he got his unemployment check and we paid all of the...
- this is a topic that has happened to me twice in seattle.But at 60 years old,you must realize and I do that friendships do not last forever.Friends have changed in the past 55 years and I am so glad that we have changes.But here is something that...
- there is another side of grief that isnt talked about and few people know that it exists.But it happened to me and it can happen to almost anybody and it is called the reaction to the shock of their death.I screamed when the call about Frank came...
- How do you deal with the anniversary? Does anybody really know? There are little things that Frank used to do and I see them everyday.The other day I watched the All Star Game and it was the last game to be played at Yankee Stadium--(the old Yankee...
- i am sending every one this message because lately things between Brad and me well it aint so good.But I have got wonderful news.Brad has been clean and sober for two months.He was on house arrest and when that happens in seattle..it means jail.Brad...
- Today we live in a very superficial socoiety.People today just do not know how to say the correct things at the correct time.And one of them is this.How can a friend or co worker help a person in grief? The first thing that you can do is not to ask...
- A neighborhood in seattle is in mourning today following the senseless death of own its own.All I can say is that he was a nice guy..but you do not argue with anyone here ,especially today.This man was a well known community leader and became one...
- It will be 4 years on 8/1/2008 that I lost Frank.And every day I try and all I do is think about him.So much has happened to me in the past year and I have been under a great strain.But I will tell all of you that noone should be with someone who...
- The other day when I was in downtown seattle where I now live I saw someone whom I havent seen in a long time.He now lives in a different part of seattle and we havent spoken in years.I had a very bad migrane and a bad reaction to the antibotic and...
- The anniversary of Franks death is coming up and as usual..he is out of it.Brad and I are two different people and I am thinking about Frank.Frank was one of my best friends and he loved sports.Frank was a very big Yankee fan and I was a big A Rod...
- Yesterday,I called my dear brother in New York and the reunion will be next year he said.I may come sooner because one of the people that I grew up with is having a bad time.I do not know the father that well,you see he was always difficult.Now he...
- i miss my brother Frank more then ever and now Brad and I are having severe money problems.I do not have the money like I used to and I have to constanly borrow to pay some of these bills.I have managed to get the energy bill down to 86.00! It was...