JanAndRob
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- I am just venting - not expecting solution. Bio dad, my son so often is no show that we decided not to tell Gd when to expect him. So now she is not disappointed. But when he does show, he's superdad! Ugh. I dont want to encourage him to make...
- I will try to make this brief. Gd and her step sister were removed frm their mom and my son a year ago+. We have Gd, sister went w her bio Dad. Somehow child support has still been going to mom from sister's bio Dad since then. Apalling. It was...
- Sunday was Jimmy Fund walk. Gd had a terrific day and our team raised our goal $ and more! Gd did great on stage and put her hand print on the hope on wheels vehicle. Memories created that are the positive side of cancer. Her dad came and as...
- Tomorrow is one year since hospital contacted DCF and we got our Gd to safety with us. Focus on the good stuff: Overnite tonite in Ogunquit, ME for hotel, indoor pool and fun. Then Sunday, our Gd is a Jimmy Fund Hero for Boston Marathon/Dana...
- Gd's dad (my son) usually has wed off. Will usually call or txt day before to plan. Just got txt he wants to see her 330 or 4 today. I had just made plans 15 min before to get gd together w her sister and another gm at 530. My son cannot be w gd...
- For backgound: Gd w leukemia in our custody one year no DCF; my son and his gf heroin. Older sis w/ her bio dad one year thur DCF. All happened when mom was charged w neglect and both kids removed. Mom had subisdized housing, my son lived there...
- Smile and enjoy the little moments. Blessings! I am not going to let anything get in my way today. That's all I am going to say.
- I have searched online lots, but have yet to see where parental rights can be terminated without DCF being already involved. In our case, parents would never consent. However, like many here, life would be so much better if they were out of...
- I have found a lot of helpful legal info here. I was just looking up termination of parental rights for my state. Hope you all can open this:https://www.childwelfare.gov/systemwide/laws_policies/statutes/groundtermin.cfm
- Gd age 4 meets new neighbor. Gd explains (out of nowhere) "I have a mom and dad and sister. My mom and dad did not take good care of me so I live with my Grammy and Papa." Of course, new neighbor had no response except "oh"! Later I asked Gd how...
- Yesterday son came to see gd after no contact for more than a month. Just his presence in my home is enough to gum up the works. He's my son, but I have no motherly feelings left for him. If gd had not called him, I dont know when we would have...
- I am very superstitious (along with level headed), so I have hesitated to put this in print, for fear of breaking the spell! We have had zero contact from gd's parents, Seven weeks mom, 4 weeks dad. No even a phone call from dad. Have only had 3...
- Reading Scgramma posts, a new baby due, asking you all would you take on another one? We have said definitely not. I do not want to think about the possibility. But it sure is real as so many of you know.
- My new avatar is our new red convertible. It's summer, our 2000 Camry will have 200k miles in a couple of weeks so we got a 2007 Solara to replace it! Just thought I would post this to offer something that we are doing JUST FOR FUN! It feels so...
- I realized just today that gd has not been asking for dad, or asking to call him hardly at all in the past couple of weeks, and dad has not been calling or visiting. It finally made sense. Less is better with bios, and kids adapt. Gd has always...