Johnzilla
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- It's been just over two weeks since my divorce finalized and I wanted to pass along how it's been in case anyone has been wondering what to expect after theirs is done...I guess the biggest thing is it feels like "the weight" has lifted, and I'm no...
- And I want to thank everybody on DS that helped get thru these last crazy months from when I filed for the divorce until now. Like everybody else, I never thought I'd find myself going thru a divorce but now that it's done, I can start moving on to...
- Tomorrow is another milestone bd and today I'm reflecting on things that I've done and have not done, things I've won and lost. In 1965, The Beatles recorded a song called "In My Life", and this first verse rings true with every passing day:"There...
- I see where today is "Ex-Spouse Day"...How in the hell or why would you celebrate it?? I can only imagine what the Hallmark card would read.."You're my ex-spouse and this much is true.. I'm happy to know you found someone to screw.You probably...
- Just got back a little bit ago from a comedy show with Ralphie May and two other comics, and nan, did it feel good to laugh!! My sides and my jaw hurt from laughing as the guys were hilarious and I found that for almost three hours, all the...
- A person I thought I could trust (long time friend) just turned around and told the STBX what we had spoken about in confidence and in turn, stbx goes off on me. I laid my heart out and this "friend" betrayed me! WTF??Its not as if I wasn't feeling...
- I guess I was due to have one but tonight was really a tough night emotionally as I had trouble keeping her out of my thoughts. It was a quiet night as far as work went, with few calls and I just had to roll around and make sure my squad didn't need...
- Why do people keep playing games when you're trying to get business taken care of so once the divorce finalizes you can both go your separate ways?I went over to her house tonight for the weekly visit with my grandaughter and as I was leaving, I...
- Today didn't bother me until just a little while ago while I was driving hone and I saw all the street corner booths selling flowers and teddy bears, then you see couples walking along holding hands, etc.That is when it set in that I was really...
- Years ago, I was a radio DJ (85-03) and this time of year would always get requests from love struck fools wanting to hear love songs. I don't think many of us are in the mood to hear them so how about our 2014 version of the "Anti Love Song"...
- I found this on one of the other pages. Hopefully it will help all of us in what we are going through. I know I can identify with some of the things mentioned...Stages of DivorcePosted on 01/11/11, 08:59 pm Everyone will react differently to...
- This morning marks the day that I filed the divorce forms with the court so hopefully this is a step in reaching some closure. I will have them served on her tomorrow so barring any complications, it should finalize on August 4.This was one of the...
- Another night at work over and I'm in another funk tonight after having what I felt was a good night last night.With my job, I am driving around all night on rotating weekends and that leaves plenty of time to think and it's not always good. I...
- I gave her one last chance tonight to change her mind about the divorce and she said no.I'm not going to be able to file tomorrow as planned due to unforeseen circumstances but I was able to get one thing accomplished tonight and that was the...
- If all goes as planned, I'm going to be filing a divorce I don't want sometime Thursday. I've been dreading this for awhile but I know I need to do it as the first true step to moving forward with the rest of my life. I've had to do all the work on...