diemjs
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- I had to go to the IRS today and found out the stupid stbx hasnt filed taxes since 2001. The man there said the IRS knew about it and that he would get caught. I asked him, Isnt this tax evasion? and he said it is. So, my question is, does...
- The stbx called tonight to talk to the kids. This is the once in a month phone call to prove he cares. He sees them everyother weekend, but once in a while, out of the blue, he calls them to say hi.This makes me sick to my stomach. Oh, I think...
- yup, am doing it today. I actually feel ok about it. I will be glad when its all over.The one thing I am afraid of is his reaction. He is going to flip his lid when he reads the fine print. I know he wants the divorce, but with the support,...
- Woke up this morning feeling blah. Im catching a cold, Im PMSing, and I just feel blah. Am feeling a little better this afternoon, but the blah is still there. And, its my birthday.Just want some hugs, man!
- Tomorrow happens to be my x mil birthday. I was thinking of buying some flowers and a card, from my children, and having them give them to her.We would have to go to her house, and I would wait outside. She is their grandmother, even tho she...
- Well, my friends, I did it! I finally did it!I went to my lawyers today and 1: filed for bankruptcy. Not a great thing, but a good thing in my situation. And 2: started the divorce! I will soon be free of that man! I cant wait! I actually had...
- Again, Im off to work, but wanted to post this before I left. I will read replies when I get home. That said, I want to know, why is it, that when I get into a fight/argument with stbx, he makes me feel worthless. Like everything is my fault,...
- I posted a thread on here titled, "For the first time..." earlier today. I am still feeling pretty good, BUT...When I was at the Drs with my son, stbx called asking me what the Dr said. I told him I was still there, and that if he wanted, he was...
- For the first time today, I actually said to myself, "what the heck was I crying and worrying about him for? I have wasted so much time on this man who I really dont even like, let alone, love. Wow, I was pretty stupid."In other words people, time...
- I was thinking today, (yes, I know how to do that!) and it came to me that the next time I am on the phone with The Stbx, and he starts spewing his venom, I am simply going to say to him,"are you still alive?" -OR- "youre not dead yet?"Thought you...
- I woke up with no heat in the house and took my kids and left. Yup, its been one whole year.I have learned a lot this past year. Some good, some not so good. But what I have learned the most, I learned from you fine folks here at DS.I have...
- I am wondering if anybody out there can help me understand child custody? I am going to fight for full, but the stbx insists on fighting me on this. I know he doesnt want full, but what else could he want? I am the one providing for these kids,...
- I am walking out the door to go to work, but will check any replies I get from this when I get home. That said, I was wondering if any of you know WHY, when you fight with the x, be it male or female, WHY do they call you every name in the book? ...
- Ok, i just posted about my kids going to church with him and his gf and how that bugged me. go bowling, to a party, to wherever, but to church?? Bugs me!Now guess what happened??? My duaghter has been coming to me lately telling me she wants us to...
- The one thing I ask him NOT to do he does. He goes to church WITH kids and gf.Why does this one thing bug me so much?!?!?SSSOOOOO ANGRY!!!