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diemjs 02/17/2008

I was thinking today, (yes, I know how to do that!) and it came to me that the next time I am on the phone with The Stbx, and he starts spewing his venom, I am simply going to say to him,
"are you still alive?" -OR- "youre not dead yet?"

Thought you all would get a kick out of that, thats all:)

deleted_user 02/17/2008

*High Five!* I told mine he's nothing to me...it felt GREAT! :) Damn...wish I would've thought about that one though diemjs! LOL

deleted_user 02/17/2008

I always say "Does this sound like I'm hanging up?"

Click

diemjs 02/17/2008

joy, use it next time! The Stbx got so mad at me when I told him I wasnt his wife any more! That felt really great!

deleted_user 02/17/2008

I don't know your stbx's name but lets call him "Steve". Next time that happens(he calls and is spewing venom) the second he takes a breath say " Ok this is either Steve or the cold, callous voice of death"

When he continues speaking say "damn! its Steve" or if he says its steve just say " Damnit!"

ChiTownBear 02/17/2008

haha ... joane ... good one ...

deleted_user 02/17/2008

"How does that effect you?"
"That COULD be true"
"Thanks for sharing that"
"Isn't that interesting?"
"That's interesting"

oh
I almost forgot
"FU%K YOU"
LOL
JK

diemjs 02/17/2008

Gia, its Willie, and that is a good one! Love it! Ok, have to tell you all...he recently lost sight in one eye. Yup, you guessed it, I started calling him One-Eye Willie:)
He didnt think it was too funny.

diemjs 02/17/2008

F**k You is what he is spewing, followed by the b, the c, the piece of s. Dont want to stoop to his level.

deleted_user 02/17/2008

Well, when he said he wanted to be friends, I told him, "No, we can't be friends, I am your ex-wife...you aren't friends with THOSE!" lol...made him feel like an ass. I'm SO using that one though diemjs if I ever hear from him again.

deleted_user 02/17/2008

love the come backs.

deleted_user 02/17/2008

When my kids Dad would get crappy I'd say "Do you need a hug? You should call your Mommy." Then he'd hang up on me.....always made me laugh.

diemjs 02/17/2008

I like that one joan. I might use that one some day. You are a trip!

deleted_user 02/17/2008

I was(JK) Just Kidding about the FU diemjs.
That would go completely against what I try to accomplish, which is to be authentic while setting boundaries and taking of myself.....

deleted_user 02/17/2008

one eyed willie, (spits diet dr pepper on lapiop)hahahahahahahaha

diemjs 02/17/2008

lou, i know, i was kidding, too! and u, b903, LMAO!!! I can see that happening!

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