diemjs
Status: Feeling sad, so very very sad.
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- For those of you who read my post yesterday about being afraid, I did it:) I asked my stbx when I will get the monthly payment he owes me. (Read my journal for more info). Ok, I did it through text, but I did it! He said tomorrow. Then I got to...
- I have to go to work, but wanted to post this before I left. I will read your replies when I get home this afternoon. Why am I so afraid of telling him things? This happened when we were together, too. For instance: According to our sep...
- I posted another thread and something interesting came up. I am wondering, how many of you left your spouse because of financial problems? ( i know other problems were there, too, but just wondering about the financial part). And, how much, that...
- I am starting to think that stbx got his GF so quickly after I moved out because there really was nothing between us. How can you "love" someone so deeply and just let them go within 3 months? Is that possible? Wouldnt you fight like HELL to...
- I probably have no right to complain, but here goes. My stbx has a GF. I have a BF. My BF and I and the kids were at the grocery store just now. He took the kids and the groceries to the car, and when I walked out there, whose car was parked...
- I want to know...why do we let them have the POWER over us? Whether we left them, or they left us, it seems to me that we are sitting around just waiting for THEM to do something. Good or bad. Most of us want the good to happen. Some of us expect...
- If he were gone, my life would be so much easier! Tonight he brought over some bunk beds for the kids. He had them in the house in the crawl space for the last ten years. WELL...when it was time for him to leave, my 6 yr old little girl started...
- Has anybody heard from tikisniffer since he posted FUCKKKKKKKKK? Anybody know how to get in touch with him? Its been too long, and am starting to worry.
- I want you all to know why I put my journals on private. Stbx knows about this site, and I dont want or trust him (or his girlfriend) not to look me up in here and use my journals against me. SO, its nothing personal towards you, my peeps:)Want to...
- Just an update and a "vent' I guess for you all. I actually love posting, dont do it much, but love keeping in contact with you. Every one of you has something so powerful to say, and it always makes me feel better. Here goes...You all know, (or...
- I am just so sick and tired of this. Wondering, worrying, and thinking about him and her. She is NOT the OW, she is his gf. It has gotten better, I dont seem to be as obsessed, but I hate them!!!!I want them gone from my thoughts.Honestly, I...
- I have been in a really good mood all day. Then the texts started with the stbx, and BAM! he has me thinking again. What am I thinking? Well, I will tell you what Im thinking!!Im thinking that I read too much into what he says to me. Im...
- My stbx and I had a conversation on the phone the other night for an hour and a half! No yelling, just talking. I told him my reasons for leaving him, besides the finances. I think he really listened to me this time. Then we got onto the topic of...
- Sorry, this is off the mark here, but how can you lock your journal? Can you lock them AFTER you have written them? If so, how?
- Anybody have any input on custody? I want full, he wants joint. I say he will never get joint because of his financial problems. He says I will never get full because his lawyer will slam me in court. (For what I dont know!)I know states differ,...