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- I came here months ago due to repeated breakups with a boyfriend. I had been on waiting list for a place I had been years before that offers counseling to women who are in situations of domestic violence (emotional, verbal or physical). This was my...
- I came here months ago due to repeated breakups with a boyfriend. I had been on waiting list for a place I had been years before that offers counseling to women who are in situations of domestic violence (emotional, verbal or physical). This was...
- Time apart from my ex and realizing his dishonesty and how he started to say what he thought I would want to hear instead of the truth really left me confused and in the dark about the truth, which is becoming clearer now. It is painful and part of...
- I am so grateful for MA. It was the one thing I could really relate to. I had such a hard time relating to people. I had clean time without a program when I found MA. I could no longer relate to the using potheads, I had isolated in my using for...
- I have been on this journey of discovery and recoveryfor a little over 5 and 1/2 years now. When I first got sober, I did it through the rooms ofAA, NA & CA. I had no idea that there was an MA atthat time. When asked my drug of choice, I...
- So today I got mad at my off & on I think it's safe to call him ex boyfriend. I had held in his forgetting my b-day, not wanting it to spoil my day. Today I finally told him. It turned into me being really hard on him because he lied about it,...
- Ok after being off & on with my ex boyfriend I did not want to get back together to break up again (I am seeing more clearly his breaking up has to do with his instability). The verbal and emotional abuse seems under control this time around (last...
- Ok after being off & on with my ex boyfriend I did not want to get back together to break up again (I am seeing more clearly his breaking up has to do with his instability). The verbal and emotional abuse seems under control this time around (last...
- I had a sponsee who didn't tell me she was moving out of state, I was even house sitting for her as she was "visiting" relatives (she was house shopping). Anyway as a first time sponsor, I let it go when the info came out as best as I could to be...
- http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art20863.aspThis is a really neat website with codependency meditations and other help including viewing codependency from a spiritual perspective.
- Yesterday was really a "backslide" for me in this off & on relationship, just me giving in out of feeling obligated/guilty when he is like I have continued to say "a mess", making progress in some areas, noticing other areas that are of concern. I...
- I deal with him and he's bent, I feel bent, I try to help him or fix him so I feel better, I get invested, he's bent, I see a glimmer of hope, he gets better, he crashes, I feel bent, I need help, he offers what he can, which is dwindling, I feel...
- Today I receive a dozen roses and card "happy anniversary". I told him this was the day. I suggested dinner "maybe". What am I thinking? Several breakups, then a date Sunday to communicate, get closure on the last unspoken breakup that lasted a...
- I went and saw my ex, thinking I could help, got drawn into a full day of just getting some communication out of the way and some closure and some reattatchment, so a day out of a month we spent together. I get some strength back ans see I don't...
- I went and saw my ex, thinking I could help, got drawn into a full day of just getting some communication out of the way and some closure and some reattatchment, so a day out of a month we spent together. I get some strength back ans see I don't...