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- As many of you know, I have stuggled the past year to let go & get past the anger & hatred I felt towards my stbx. I was stuck in the victim mentality & it was driving me slowly crazy. About a month ago, while talking to a very close friend, I...
- I have been separated from my husband for over a year now. I am having the hardest time , forgiving him & letting go. I instigate arguments with him on a regular basis & I know this is because I'm still very much attached to him. The attention &...
- I'm nearly a year into the complete end of my marriage. I have gone through so much & come through so much. I feel I am a better person now for my experience & most of the time, I feel good.But, it seems, there is always the black cloud of my ex...
- I have recently had a lengthy conversation with someone who is a Dom...While I dont agree (just for me personally) in the pain & humiliation aspect that he prefers, it really got me thinking about my life. I have always considered myself a very...
- I'm really struggling with an issue of custody between my stbx & myself. We both live in Canada but he is originally from South Africa. (he is caucasion). He moved to Canada in '98 to be with me & we had our daughter in 2000. We are now separated &...
- Please HELP!!! I have been separated for 7 months now but had held onto the hope that we would reconcile....until I found a woman's bath & night products in his bathroom about a month ago. Burst my bubble & I was devastated...still am. Now, I am...
- Reading this this morning was a "lightbulb" moment....wanted to share."There is a world of difference between feeling guilty & learning from the past. Going through a self-inflicted guilt sentence is a neurotic trip you must stop if you want to...
- I have finally had to admit that I need help. My doctor prescribed celexa for me, 20mg/day. The pharmacist suggested trying to take it at night as it may cause sleepiness. I took my first one last night & woke up this morning feeling really wierd. I...
- I figured something out for myself awhile....what part of my complete unhappiness at this point is all about. I feel as though I am "homeless" since he left & our "home" was sold...since then everything has been a whirlwind!Since moving out with my...
- I have been reading the book "The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self-Confidence" by:Dr. Robert Anthony.... I have been experiencing alot of lightbulb moments but this one has stuck out the most for me so far. I'd like to share... " It is imperative for...
- Found this on another website....it helped me, hope it can help someone else....$20.00 Sometimes we just need to be reminded! A well-known speaker started off his seminar by:holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like...
- As most of you know...I have been separated for 5 months now....I still love him with all my heart. I have been going through hell since he left & then we were seeing eachother through November & half of December....that only made things worse. He...
- Marriage has no guarantees. If that's what you're looking for, go live with a car battery. Erma Bombeck, 1927-1996, American Journalist/Author/Humorist
- Many believe that self-help and self-improvement is about rags to riches, failure to success, and so forth, when indeed it is the beginning of a journey into self-discovery. Inside every human being is an eternal truth and a life purpose. Using our...
- This is following up on my question yesterday about sleeping with the other guy....I texted my husband again tonight & asked him if we could just talk tonight....he replied no. Then I asked him if when he is alone if he truly feels in his heart that...