AndreaBEE
Status: I am Free at last
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- When silence pulls you into the vortex you must be willing to let go and surround yourself with the comforting aspect of love. When we choose new beginnings we are surrendering our past hurts in exchange for the unknown. We arrive hopeful and...
- Xabuser is getting married. Hmmmmm. Why did I pick up that phone????????? And when he told me about it it was all about the new women's 401K, sale of her house, trips she is paying for, new clothes she bought him, credit card she gave...
- Finally I may have gotten rid of him. I hear he has met someone else and she is paying for everything for him. Sorry for her but good for me. It is so freeing to not be on his radar right now. This man manipulated me and took me for...
- Ok, so I am going to meet an accountant for an internet date at a Mexican restaurant on Wednesday. I met him on Match.com, we are both 56. Our match % is like 92%. Asking for help and advise about this. Very new to the dating game. This man may...
- I am tired of this roller coaster. I am so anxious today. Have gone for a walk, taken an outing to Farmers Market, cleaned house. Having a hard time relaxing today. The week ends are so difficult sometimes. Haven't felt this way in a while. ...
- Do ya'all think paying for a dating site like Ourtime or Match is better than the POF's or OK Cupid. I would like to find a LTR sometime.
- I was in an abusive relationship for the last 5 years, getting counseling and life is Ok, have been out of the relationship for 6 months. I have recently met someone: He appears nice, kind, caring, loves dogs, has own home and own money and is a...
- I got this list yesterday from my therapist. I hope it helps:Emotional DependenceFearFinancial Dependence (Me)Hope (that they will change)HousingImmigration StatusIsolationPhysical Illness (I was always sick) They suck us drySelf Esteem and...
- Had a great therapy session today and all afternoon I have been feeling general anger toward the X. All the crazy rollercoaster over the last 5 years was totally insane. Now I can see it after 6 months of being away from him. I have broken NC...
- "I am comfortable looking in the mirror and saying "I love you I really love you."That's one to work on for me and think about. I hope it helps someone today.
- After having a birthday dinner last night for my 31 year old son, I am upset and angry with him and me. This kid has a serious addiction problem. He dad, my first husband was an alcoholic and drug addict and when they say this is a family illness...
- To make it all short I am totally concerned about my 31 year old son and his alcohol and drug addtiction. I know because his dad died an addict and my son blames me for everything bad in his life. Of course I am the co dependent in all...
- I attract only healthy relationship. I am always treated well.
- This is the only time I get to live today. I choose to enjoy it.My therapist gave me this great book yesterday and I am having a hard time with self esteem.I hope this little phrase will help others today. Today its going to be my motto.
- Had a lovely time today with a nice gentelman, went to mall, lunch and ice cream. Didn't feel anything electric just nice. 3rd date since I have left abuser, am I looking to feel that electric feeling you get with an abuser? I don't know if I am...