Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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AndreaBEE 10/22/2013

Finally I may have gotten rid of him. I hear he has met someone else and she is paying for everything for him. Sorry for her but good for me. It is so freeing to not be on his radar right now. This man manipulated me and took me for everything!!!!!!! It makes me very angry as I am now rebuilding. I am feeling free today and blessed.

deleted_user 10/22/2013

so glad to hear that you are feeling blessed! keep up your strength

azkevin 10/22/2013

Isn't that freedom feeling awesome?!

1seekingpeace 10/22/2013

I was thinking the same thing the other day, it's funny I figured out why he felt that being with her was the "easier" situation for him. She doesn't have her kids, they can live in a one bedroom vs a three bedroom, they don't have kids around so he doesn't have to feel uncomfortable about sex, and she doesn't make him pay rent, how convenient for him. He got away with ripping me if over $5000 that he will never lay back, and left me to pay all these bills alone, and broke! Yeah I guess he can no longer take from me, and is now her burden, that's a blessing!

ltwist 10/22/2013

Yay Andrea! I am so happy you are rid of him. And, I have no doubt you will rebuild. You are strong, hear you roar! Go lady.

AndreaBEE 10/22/2013

Getting there. Thanks friends. Abusers piss me off today!

IleneW 10/22/2013

Good for you!!!!!!

gem111 10/22/2013

Wow, lucky for you Andrea. I hope she puts up with him for a very long time.
I know your feeling. It is an awesome feeling to have. T feel totally free of the big weight on your shoulders. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

AndreaBEE 10/22/2013

I know all about how he works. He will financially suck her dry with a smile on his face, then he will start being a jerk when she won't dish out money any more. Then she may see the light. For now it's working for me. Right now the honeymoon is lovely for them. Thank God. I have not heard from him in quite a while. I knew something was up. Now that my head is clear I can spot a red flag.

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