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- I took three years off from dating after ending a relationship with a N/S. I accepted it, healed, and then focused on myself in the years since. In November, I met someone who seemed so sweet and sincere. God, he seemed genuine and treated me really...
- I saw the following post in another online forum and found it extremely insightful and wanted to share it with the people in this forum. I understand clearly now that nothing would've changed my ex N/S and only I can make the necessary changes to...
- Hello everyone. Although I have been reading, I haven't posted much lately. It's been over a year since I went NC--one lapse for a couple of weeks when my new email account was hacked. He wrote to me this in late summer wanting to know about our...
- I think I was hacked. Somehow. Someway... My ex N/S has my new email address. I received this message last night: from himHi [movingon74]!! I really don't even know where to start. I have questions, but I don't want to overwhelm you or chase you...
- I've been focusing on healing and moving forward with my life...Some really wonderful things have happened recently: I started a new job a couple of months ago and, soon, I'll be closing on a new house. I always imagined I would buy my first home...
- I'm reposting this from another DS forum. This article put SO much into perspective for me....especially the last paragraph...Is Your Ex a Psychopath?Deadly Diagnoses: "My Ex-Partner? Yeah, Well, He Turned Out to Be a Narcissist."Published on June...
- So there's this new show on the ID cable station called "Karma's a B!tc%." For some reason, I really enjoy watching it...Maybe it could have something to do with this past year. In any event, there was a mention during one episode of a story about...
- THE BANDANA SENIOR MILITARY OFFICER MISCONDUCTBy Charles FaddisThe Pentagon recently announced that Army Maj. Gen. Ralph O. Baker, the commander of a counterterrorism force in the Horn of Africa, had been relieved from his post in late March on...
- Has anyone been called this by a friend--and by this, I do not necessarily your ex? Are survivors prone to become passive aggressive after all of the crap we went through? I used to the be the 100% happy, strong, yet introspective person before the...
- Although I truly believe I am moving on, for some reason, last night I had a hard time sleeping. I just couldn't get this topic out of my head...I'm wondering if it is: a) A normal reaction for the N/S/P to call you names like the one above after...
- I'm Not What You Say I Am By Jennifer Young, LMHC, Director of Survivor ServicesLife isn't all about appearances. Life is about movement, awareness, insight, change, compassion. Life is about interactions with others. As we move through the world we...
- I have had NC with my ex S/N for nearly six months and, in large part due to this forum and outside reading, I am really feeling so much better now. Before I joined this forum, I really didn't know what constituted a N/S/P. Tonight I don't know what...
- I've been thinking a lot about life and what I have learned from the events that took place this past year. I stumbled across a blog that put so many things into perspective and thought I'd share it with forum. What I'm learning is to moving forward...
- I came across a blog today that spoke of the power of mantras, specifically one word mantras. Essentially a person finds a word that describes the state of tranquility/happiness the person aspires for and can be posted on a mirror so it's the first...
- It's been a while since I last posted but I have been reading the recent discussions (I'm former LH1974). I hope everyone is making some progress in their recovery. I think I'm finally seeing the light of day but it's been quite the journey. I ran...